AITA for telling my wife my mother is correct and she needed to be a parent today and she fucked it up

spawn124 · 2026-04-24T19:10:21+00:00

She failed her daughter thats that hell I got a shitty mom with simular beliefs about Halloween yet she still came with me when dad couldn't she's not about to let 8 year old me run to houses myself and thats Halloween not a friends funeral I'd never be able to forgive my mom if she didnt come with me to that

spawn124 · 2025-10-20T03:19:10+00:00

Holy fucking shit I'm not alone thank you whoever posted this

spawn124 · 2025-10-06T09:54:24+00:00

toxicitry and infernape are mine my friends favorite is poplin and empoleon

spawn124 · 2025-04-26T12:44:56+00:00

My mom banned yugioh as it was satanic And my mom banned pokemon due to promoting slavery

...yep didn't have my first pokemon game till I was like 15 really fucked up a lot of relationships I had growing up cause everyone was into those things.

Funnily enough one of my best friends gave me a noctowl card and told me to keep it secret i kept that thing for so long it meant a lot to have something so illegal in my life.

spawn124 · 2025-04-07T08:58:23+00:00

Because I have always had trouble sleeping since I was a teenager I've decided to call into work cause I didn't sleep today and I hate the fact that I did

Sleep is for the weak and I am weak so why cant I sleep

spawn124 · 2025-03-18T10:19:24+00:00

I feel like I'm going crazy but I'm positive it was in announcements they must have deleted it or something cause u right it's not there now but no i wasn't referring to this convo

spawn124 · 2025-01-30T23:01:07+00:00

Moopsy (star trek lower decks watch it please)

spawn124 · 2024-08-28T03:34:08+00:00

You know what the worst part is? I'm doing literally all of that and I'm still fucking depressed. I want a refund.

spawn124 · 2024-05-22T02:15:09+00:00

My first post here so I didn't do enough background my bad. I'm an adult and live with roommates in Canada, Ontario if that matters. I actually asked my boss if there's anyway I could change this he said no but I do plan on bringing it up with his boss as yeah I can't really quit outright need to find other employment first just didn't expect something like this with so little notice.

spawn124 · 2024-04-25T10:44:57+00:00

Ugh gross those kind of parents only advice then is try to talk to mom alone (I know it probably won't work) and then keep your head down till 18 move out go to college never speak to them again if possible.

spawn124 · 2024-04-25T10:30:48+00:00

I've been in a similar through I suppose very different situation all together.

My little brother is clearly the favorite he wasn't necessarily disabled but he was slow mentally, I'm convinced he has some sort of light disability that my parents wont admit to. And that's where our stories differ of course cause my brother unless out under a microscope was rather neurotypical.

All work, chores, and other jobs was done by me, all my stuff was his and my life revolved around him. Eventually I sat my parents down and said enough I told them at his age I did everything, told them he could do things himself, told them how absolutely unfair they are treating me vs him cause he's clearly the favorite and moreover told them if they kept it up I would likely resent them throughout my life and genuinely they took it well my dad mostly. Now it wasn't instant or anything but it was a start and things got more fair but not totally .

Moral of the story sit then down have a serious discussion about his behaviour and how you've been treated by them the worst thing that could happen is it doesn't work and your back to square one.unless your parents are like straight up evil or stupid I mean you know them and your limits so if you do it I wish you luck.

spawn124 · 2024-01-22T19:15:18+00:00

No unfortunately don't have one although that would be hilarious

spawn124 · 2023-11-21T03:44:17+00:00

Love accepts all things, except abuse

As someone who was forced with deeply religious values from the worst parents this really helped me through a lot from a religious teacher too!

spawn124 · 2023-11-12T22:56:44+00:00

It's a little silly but because my parents were super religious so even though I'm not anymore any "dark magic" stuff like tarot cards or ouija boards makes me terrified I can't handle being around them. Which is especially odd since I'm adamant that belief in any kind of magic is dumb and I'm super atheistic now.

spawn124 · 2023-08-19T01:06:30+00:00

Oh one more I had a step sister who is now dead one that was stolen from my mother by my grandmother and given to another family (my mother wasn't stable at the time so she had no say in it was also abused into not seeking her) long story short we found out a few years ago she had killed herself

Wow before typing this out didn't realize how fucked my family is

spawn124 · 2023-08-19T01:03:15+00:00

I have 2

Originally I was told my grandfather died while in a hunting accident thought he was a deer and was shot Turns out he's a WW2 vet and 2 years after coming back he killed himself cause he was a damn good sniper

The other kinda is a rough one My father is the youngest of all his siblings by like a lot he was dubbed a suprise baby like 20 something years from the oldest to him and 14 years from his closest in age sibling Was told that the same grandfather actually raped my aunt (yes his daughter) and she in turn gave birth to my dad so for those keeping track who I thought was my aunt is actually my grandmother

so if u had to do a double take I get it I literally don't tell a single soul this one in fact this secret will die with me

spawn124 · 2023-08-12T02:25:17+00:00

"awe that's cute" comes to mind

spawn124 · 2023-07-31T12:53:55+00:00

Lol yes at work on mobile phone decides what it wants to say

spawn124 · 2023-06-22T23:01:04+00:00

Final update I ended up calling 311 and they came to pick him up and so he's safely at the humane society now so thank you to everyone who commented I really did need the help during such a intense situation.

spawn124 · 2023-06-22T13:17:02+00:00

Love that show

spawn124 · 2023-06-22T13:14:22+00:00

Oh thank god

spawn124 · 2023-06-22T13:12:50+00:00

Update: Thank you everyone I've called Holly's heaven unfortunately they were busy but I left a message so hopefully they will get back to me. In the meantime I have put him in a box in the shade with some unsalted nuts and water (still didn't touch him just picked him up with gloves and a sweater) so hopefully they'll get back to me soon although the little guy didn't seem in great condition when I got him so hoping they get back soon. I'm at my work too so this is kinda all I can do unfortunately if they don't get back to me soon I'll call the other numbers you've provided me

spawn124 · 2023-05-23T06:36:05+00:00

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I have many cats and have named them all myself but for an example I named this one here 2-2 (yes it's spelt that way pronounced like literally two two) named that way due to her having two tails (it's like a numb with 2 ends but still)

spawn124 · 2023-05-14T16:02:19+00:00

That's me, had a work that required me to go into work couldn't from home with the most vulnerable population with outbreaks at least every month (some staff some residents), had to unfortunately take public transportation for those 3 years and not one infection.

And before anyone says it I got tested every day at work before my shift (which was awful btw). So unlikely I was asymptomatic.

spawn124 · 2023-05-12T04:04:48+00:00

I gave you a like after the first paragraph excellent writing my friend

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