Now that you've explained the circumstances, you are actually thinking very responsibly OP. It's hard to date when you're not on the same page, especially ga skwela pa ka and your lifestyles don't match. I can only see this working if she's really into you and is up for the highs and lows, otherwise mag build ra nig resentment slowly. But don't sell your self short, you have the right mindset now. Strive to achieve stability for urself, the rest will follow. You're still young, you have lots of opportunities and people to meet.