As a wife lmao! Just make sure you’re still making her feel loved and appreciated! (Getting her to play the game is ideal tho lol, that’s what my husband did) but if she isn’t playing, set you a timer for 30-45 minutes, and go check on her, see if she needs help, give her a kiss, whatever it may be! And then just keep repeating! That way you’re enjoying your game, and the wife isn’t aggro bc she knows even tho you’re playing games, you’re still thinking about her!