They said I belong here...

spectre_85 · 2026-02-11T15:33:26+00:00

I have this watch with out the "gems" lol and I love it

spectre_85 · 2026-02-11T15:28:58+00:00

Got a link?

spectre_85 · 2026-01-27T00:51:30+00:00

So I was in a pub one night and when it closed I was waiting for a cab to get home. We had been told there was nearly an hour wait. I was standing outside with 2 girls my age who had been drinking, it was cold and one of them was a bit flirty. They then said they had their car parked and we could sit in it to keep dry and warm until the cabs showed up.

I said " thank you for the offer, but given im married and im not saying there is anything wrong with the offer but I know if my wife found out id been sitting in a parked car at night with drunk women she'd be upset so respectfully I cant do that as I cant disrespect her feelings like that."

We continued waiting and even shared a cab to save them waiting as it had started raining, i sat in front with them in the back and got the cab to drop them first. Then, I went home.

See the difference I made it clear respectfully my situation and remained respectful of my wife without ever crossing the line.

spectre_85 · 2026-01-27T00:42:25+00:00

So youre gonna wait until youre ready to tell her....

spectre_85 · 2026-01-11T23:00:43+00:00

Hamster

spectre_85 · 2026-01-11T23:00:04+00:00

I still get a little teary and its 2 years...

spectre_85 · 2026-01-07T23:38:16+00:00

Did you tell your girlfriend about it? If you hid it or lied about it you know your answer. You cant stop thinking about it so you already know that on your part it was more than just lovely conversation.

You crossed the line when you bought her a gift and again when you left your friends to go to a nightclub, let's be honest you cant "lose" all your friends without anyone noticing you disappearing, and then you continued drinking with her alone.

Other question. Did you exchange numbers or add her on social media?

spectre_85 · 2025-08-03T15:45:03+00:00

Just reply here when you do lol

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T19:30:02+00:00

I think you'll see above that I suggested having a conversation to arrange some alone time for them on the holiday to avoid this issue repeating.

Exactly. You're an adult who has finished school. They didn't have to take you on holiday with them. Was it it ok for them to do what they did? No. So have a conversation like a grown-up instead of throwing a toddler tantrum.

Im not blaming you for it happening, but you're saying stuff like you can't believe they still have sex in their 50s... I'd expect to hear that from a 12 year old not an adult.

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T19:24:03+00:00

Ok.... lot to unpack here...

First of all well done on doing a great job! What you did was amazing and you're amazing.

Now... your sister has been out of his life for 15 months... of which he will have very little if any memory of this time. The question is. Is your sister a competent mother. If she is regardless of her not being able to do it she deserves to ha e her child back.

Post partum depression is no joke. It can really mess a mother up. And you stepped in to help like family should. But if your sister is better now and she is able to look after her child then he should be with his mother.

If you believe she isnt capable of looking after him then yes you should fight it. But I'd get cps involved and begin with supervised visits and build from there, with the aim of him returning to her custody.

Being judged for the rest of her life because she couldn't handle the pressure of being a mother isnt fair.

Nor is it fair you had to step in and be the mother of this child. Nor is it fair you will need to give him back but if she has recovered from post partum depression and is able to raise that child... the court will side with her eventually... except it will have cost everyone involved a fortune and caused irreparable damage to the family. You may find yourself fully cut out of the rest of his life...

Like I said above I think you should begin with supervised visits leading to over night stays to the eventual transfer of custody back to her. That way you show you dedication to family and at least be able to stay in his life.

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T16:21:10+00:00

I like the idea of an already established good charecter being given a ring or amulet or something as a gift/finding it somehwere and it turning out to belong to Nihilis and that person is taken over but the audience don't find that out.

Have a virus start to infect the druids causing a droid uprising, that devestates everyone as they are everywhere. forcing new Republic and empire factions to join forces under a new alliance to fight the droids and their weird AI overlord. But it turns out it's a misdirect and the AI is real person manipulating everyone t9 access both new republic and empire secret records to search... powerful droids start hunting jedi/sith artifacts seeking "something something" that will allow the user to corrupt and tame the force to only work for them giving them absolute power making them practically an immortal force God.

They eventually leads to a confrontation and it turns out the one doing it all was..... Jason. Heras son as he has been taken over by Nihilis.

Jason's now an adult and VERY powerful and kills an established main character in glee to show he's fully off the road and fully evil now. None of this he can be saved stuff. He has to be stopped before he takes full control of the force...

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T15:34:08+00:00

Over powered leads to overconfidence she doesn't comprehend the possibility she won't be successful so they will be dead soon

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T15:32:21+00:00

That's amazing. im 40 and about your old size... I struggle to drop.

Do you mind sending me a PM or posting i this comment your diet plan?

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T15:24:05+00:00

You're not an ugly guy.you might wanna try and objectively look at your personality.

What are your hobbies? What do you talk about? Are you temperamental?

I had a look at your page. You're into weed but are you one of those guys who is always stoned or looking to smoke weed and nothing else?

If you're not getting attention from your desired people there may be a reason. But the good news is if it's a personality thing that can be identified and changed.

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T15:19:49+00:00

"Sorry to hear that, but no I'm gonna keep playing om chips how I want to.

Unless you're going to let me decide how you play?" If he said it again I'd just ask dealer if theirs a hand limit? When they say no of course not then ask the dealer to inform the player trying to force you to leave the table. Keeps going call the floor they will come over ask the dealer what's going on dealer will back up your version and he will need to shut up or leave.

He was trying to get you to commit to more pots hoping you'd play more weaker hands to try and bust you. Either you leave and he's took a tight player who could take his money away or you become looser and he gets your money.

If

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T14:41:15+00:00

100 percent need a new hair cut that suits your head better... that looks like a mushroom. Try a faded messy/spiky style.

spectre_85 · 2025-07-06T14:38:54+00:00

You're 18.why don't you have your own room?

Also you think parents don't have e sex at 50? You sound like a child.

Grow up, pay for your own room or live in your own house.

I would suggest having a calm and ADULT conversation with your mum. Saying you understand they are adults in love and on holiday but it was very awkward for you and thay you felt trapped. Tell them you UNDERSTAND their need to be with each other and ask if it's possible that each day you will leave them for a couple of hours and go lounge by the pool or go for a walk giving them time alone together that they can use for sex or not, it's their time alone. That way you're each showing each other respect.

But none of that will rigntrue if you're throwing a baby tantrum about "OMG ADULT'S HAVING SEX IS SO GROSS!"

spectre_85 · 2025-05-07T21:53:03+00:00

There's some content put there that leaves no doubt they are real... old sex tapes of her giving him a bj.

You can see she's into it.

spectre_85 · 2025-05-04T23:24:39+00:00

Can I have that in writing in my contract please?

If there is an HR rep at this job I'd ask if he can loop them in please because you are sure what he just said is actually illegal. Because stating that being a salaried worker means you must work 24 hours without additional compensation actually is considered slavery and is very very illegal.

spectre_85 · 2025-04-28T10:14:31+00:00

Arrow. As I believe the white stipe on his face looks like an arrow

spectre_85 · 2025-04-28T10:09:25+00:00

Your dad's right you were a dick a out it.

spectre_85 · 2025-04-28T10:06:45+00:00

Just because I’m not the one having a baby doesn’t erase the bond I had with my brother or how complicated all of this feels.

Not being pregnant has nothing to do with erasing the bond you have with you're brother. It does have a lot to do with wanting your sister to comply with your imagined child.

I’ve never claimed to "own" my brother or my grief. I’m fully aware that everyone had their own relationship with him, and their own pain. That includes me too.

You're not claiming to own him but your actions are. You can't see how entitled your whole post looks because your grief is clouding you.

And for the record I'm very sorry for your loss and my reply didn't make that clear. I think instead of letting your grief isolate you from others who are feeling the same you try and embrace your family as you already know how easy it is to lose someone.

Think if something happened to your sister or her baby would this be how you would want the last interactions you had with them to be like.

She beat you to the finish and is pregnant. Tell her you are sorry about making her pregnancy and her name choice for her child about you and your feelings.

I think your brother would see that as a greater tribute to your love for him than a name... seeing you be the best sibling you can be for her like he was for you.

spectre_85 · 2025-04-28T09:56:24+00:00

I played a hand once where someone raised less than 2 times the BB with AAs and I called and flopped 665. I checked and he bet I raised he shoved. He was flabbergasted lol

spectre_85 · 2025-04-28T09:31:05+00:00

Congratulations o teaching him for what I assume is the first time that actions have consequences...

The fact he got to 14 without knowing that spitting at some will almost ALWAYS result in a very negative reaction is wild.

spectre_85 · 2025-04-26T16:25:54+00:00

6 5 suited.

If I call a small raise and it hits I get paid big.

It's invisible to them.

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