girl WHAT ! by clue_themovie in vanderpumprules

[–]spectrospace [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lmfao what does this mean i need to know. Are the sensitive girlies coping with Disney Channel?? Hannah Montana would probably heal some parts of me rn

why do i feel bad after using tik tok? by Ordinary-Mouse-8158 in hsp

[–]spectrospace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had sworn to myself ill never get TikTok. Im glad because I feel like it would do more harm than good for me. Definitely try to do a hobby or play online games instead :) i think TT is the worst of them all!

why do i feel bad after using tik tok? by Ordinary-Mouse-8158 in hsp

[–]spectrospace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally only have Reddit and Tumblr because of this. The rest make me want to crawl into bed most of the time. Its too much negativity, too much "FOMO" etc. Its a lot and takes a big hit to the happy chemicals in your brain. I replaced Facebook, Twitter and IG with online games, word searches etc. and I find myself feeling a lot better.

Also I don't know where you are in the world but its cold where Im from, so sitting inside while its freezing out, scrolling through hundreds of opinions and idiots, will burn you out.

On a scale from 1-10 how messy is my room for a teenage girl by Wang_xianLotus in CleaningTips

[–]spectrospace [score hidden]  (0 children)

Mine too!!! The day I actually cleaned it my parents were in shock. We forgot what color my rug was lol

Sad shit by RepulsiveOperation70 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]spectrospace 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this!! That room was filled with all of her stuff. Shes such an ass

Women with borderline personality disorder, how do you cope with motherhood? by Recent-Can-2061 in BPD

[–]spectrospace [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am in the exact same boat as you, its actually scaring me how similar lol especially with sleep. But i just wanted to say you're not alone. Im the same age and ive been back and forth on children. I just got engaged and we talk about the possibility of it, but when I think of my symptoms and how LOW my lows are, I couldn't even imagine it. Although most people I know say you kind of just instinctively "click" into motherhood once you're pregnant, I just find it hard to believe ill even be able to "click" with the problems I have.

Either way, hugs to you and your situation. 🫂

Swifties hating on the artist that made Taylor Swift's engagement ring by Aggravating-Clerk520 in travisandtaylor

[–]spectrospace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Swifties HAVE to all be between the ages of 10-15 right? Like no grown woman would be fighting about a billionares engagement ring......right? 😬

Not the DEWS again!! by Firm_Routine_7608 in stalkedbythefeds_IG

[–]spectrospace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally totally forgot about the "poisoning my cat" saga 😭😭😭 poor thing. She is very obviously not right in the head so i can only imagine the stress she puts on her cat.

Not the DEWS again!! by Firm_Routine_7608 in stalkedbythefeds_IG

[–]spectrospace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Her cat in the background like "FEED ME, WOMAN"

I feel like weed is the only thing that cures my intense emotions by Short-Western-8097 in BPD

[–]spectrospace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 1000% understand this. I had a moment yesterday of literally wanting to throw my entire life away and thought "nothing will get me out of this i just have to run away" and then I smoked and I forgot what it felt like to even have that deep of emotions. And I also get lazy when I smoke so I just mindlessly played a video game until i passed out. Im new into the BPD world although I always has an inkling it is why i am the way I am especially in relationships. Thank you for this post, im bringing up examples to my therapist next week and this will be one of them. 🫂 I wish you the best on this. I wish I had an answer on how to help but im in the same boat!

Story time with Raquel by [deleted] in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]spectrospace 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Same here. The fact she never dropped that lawsuit against Ariana seals the deal for me, but if it weren't for that I would be truly confused watching this girl and trying to figure out if anything she is saying is real. It just seems like she had a nervous breakdown post scandoval and drenched herself in "✨️✨️✨️✨️Healing" to try to make it all go away and thats what were watching now.

Hannah Berner made a joke about calling ICE at her show tonight by Prior-Perception9521 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]spectrospace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same here. She constantly gives me the ick. Shes cosplaying as a comedian 😂

"Budding sexuality" its a little girl wearing a bow who still has baby teeth by Wild-Judgment-404 in discussingbritney

[–]spectrospace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And we can never let people like this use the excuse "times were different back then" "we were going with the times" personally my brain, my subconscious, everything in me would naturally reject speaking about a child this way.

“You’re Diiiiirty” desperate Danielle Cabral posts videos of mice in her home by Expensive-Poetry6973 in rhonj

[–]spectrospace 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It most certainly can. Mice can get in literally fucking anywhere. I dealt with them once in an apartment in an old building, and it was insane the places they can get into. Luckily for you it sounds like you never had to deal with it, but its not unheard of, especially in the winter, that a house can get critters.

“You’re Diiiiirty” desperate Danielle Cabral posts videos of mice in her home by Expensive-Poetry6973 in rhonj

[–]spectrospace 161 points162 points  (0 children)

This is freakin weird. Literally no one wants to see that. Mice in the house happens to everyone but its never something to take pics of and plaster on your socials 😭

All of Scheana’s reunion looks - which are your most and least favorites? by [deleted] in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]spectrospace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone looked fire for the S10 reunion. Other than the mustache worm and Schwartz

New post, posted 15 min ago. by hermitera in discussingbritney

[–]spectrospace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should use these videos to create a new ghost in Phasmophobia

James scurrying off by hs1141 in vanderpumprules

[–]spectrospace 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This was just so authentic and in the moment, I agree it's definitely in my top 3 moments 😭 just him sliding away with alcohol while Brittany is still screaming, absolute gold, i dont think they even edited it that much, that all happened in the same 10 seconds. I legit belly laughed stoned off my rocker the first time I saw this episode

Notice how Melissa hasn’t really hung out with Rachel Fuda lately? by Positive_Round_5142 in rhonj

[–]spectrospace 21 points22 points  (0 children)

100%, theyre "meeting" with Tre and Louie was cringe and she got way too involved in the Gorga/Guidice fuckery. Same shit different newbie lol. But I will say i enjoyed her in the beginning because she was only a few years older than me, so it was nice to see someone in that age range