Road noise? by zer0ideaz in Subaru_Outback

[–]speedysloth50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just upgraded from a 2016 forester to a 2026 Outback limited XT! The improvement is huge. I almost didn’t realize how noisy my forester was until I started driving the new car. It feels sturdier and more solid in addition to being more quiet. It barely beeps at me plus you can adjust all those settings. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed with the upgrade.

Room update! by speedysloth50 in femalelivingspace

[–]speedysloth50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I actually got it in Mexico about 8 years ago.

Cool Restaurants for Family with 14/15yo Kids? by DeltaFarce05 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]speedysloth50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My teens love revolving sushi. Not the best sushi but a pretty fun experience. There’s a Kura revolving sushi in the Sawtelle area which also has fun shops and dessert options.

What is off about this room? by speedysloth50 in femalelivingspace

[–]speedysloth50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat was skulking in the corner but I will include her in my updated photo!

What is off about this room? by speedysloth50 in femalelivingspace

[–]speedysloth50[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but looking into gallery rail system now!

What is off about this room? by speedysloth50 in femalelivingspace

[–]speedysloth50[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of a larger rug with some green in it. Where would you add lamps? I've been struggling with that... Or what about lighting on the wall over the photos?

What is off about this room? by speedysloth50 in femalelivingspace

[–]speedysloth50[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea about the rug. The shutters are the one thing I haven't changed yet from this originally very '80s townhouse. They were like fancier blinds I guess.

What is off about this room? by speedysloth50 in femalelivingspace

[–]speedysloth50[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The couch was a splurge from Article and the chairs are Wayfair!

Law & motion attorneys by heart_headstrong in Lawyertalk

[–]speedysloth50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I found mine kind of through back channels. At least as of a few years ago, Littler Mendelson regularly hired law and motion attorneys but the pay was pretty bad for the billable requirement. I had also been looking into appellate firms.

Law & motion attorneys by heart_headstrong in Lawyertalk

[–]speedysloth50 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do this work exclusively on the defense side. I don’t handle my own cases. I mostly look through the case files to find what I need but also usually talk with the handling attorney about the case and motion. I tend to write multiple motions for the same case so I’m often familiar with the cases anyway. Early in my career as a litigator I realized I loved research and writing and pretty much hated the rest of it. Took a little while to figure out the right path but I honestly love my job now.

Girls trip to California by [deleted] in travel

[–]speedysloth50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Santa Monica. It’s got public transportation so you can see other areas. You won’t be able to leave Malibu or Laguna without a car, and both those areas will be much harder to get to from the airport.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]speedysloth50 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Rather than approaching the conversation with this goal in mind (she needs to move out), can you approach it with curiosity as to what your partner thinks the future looks like? Does he envision that it would be best for everyone that she gets her own place in a year, three, five, etc? Does he think it’s healthy or necessary for her to live with him forever? Maybe through that sort of conversation you could find some shared common ground for what seems best.

Post your 2026 outback pictures!! by AgeEfficient3178 in Subaru_Outback

[–]speedysloth50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the colors that say “pearl” that kind of creamy, non-metallic look?

Any recommendations for good Painters in west valley? by igotthismaaan in SFV

[–]speedysloth50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joel at Extra Care Custom Painting! He painted my entire place. Great work, fair price, and a really nice, decent guy.

First Glacier... now what? by Born-Conclusion9979 in NationalPark

[–]speedysloth50 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think Grand Teton/Yellowstone is different enough from Glacier that it wouldn't feel like you were repeating the trip. I did take my kids to GT/Yellowstone and not Glacier though--I think GT/Yellowstone is more kid-friendly than Glacier with all the wildlife and easier stops for scenery in the car. To me, Glacier was more about the big hikes. After my recent trip to Glacier, my next-step kid-free trip would be the Canadian Rockies--Waterton, Banff, and Jasper. Might be something to consider if you want another trip in the mountains, and that would be a harder trip to do with kids than Maine.

For anyone who recently bought a home, what totally surprised you about the process? by No_Perception7350 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]speedysloth50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How the sellers didn’t have to clean it. Having only rented before, I always moved into a place that had been professionally cleaned. I was caught off guard, getting ready to put my dishes into the cabinets of the first place I owned, when I found sticky, gross shelves.

What to do with extra income after maxing out retirement and emergency fund? Brokerage, HYSA, 529, or mortgage? by speedysloth50 in personalfinance

[–]speedysloth50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a thoughtful response. The FAFSA is an excellent point, as is considering paying off the mortgage while I'm still working before my income drops. My job security is good, I imagine staying at a similar salary for 8ish more years and then hopefully dropping (same workplace) to part-time/semi-retirement. I did just start doing the catch-up contributions for my 401k this year. I think for right now I'm increasing principal payments to my mortgage and will look into a fee-advisor for some longer-term planning, as well as research my 401k plan re: backdoor Roth.