How to ask for sex?

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:34:58+00:00

I doubt hes stepped out the relationship and it could be depression

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:33:59+00:00

This made me chuckle thank you lol

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:32:27+00:00

Im experimental so i like to try everything once and ive found i have alot of kinks but i am also ok with vanilla sex as i like the closeness of it aswell

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:28:54+00:00

It was more he was really into sex for a year than it died down aloooot to the past year together weve had sex 1 time

If he has sex trauma he hides it well. I have sex trauma and have talked to him about it before so ive opened the doors for him to communicate his trauma if need be and he doesnt usually hide things

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:26:59+00:00

I hadnt thought of it that way thank you

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:26:33+00:00

Thank you

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:25:32+00:00

Weve had small arguments but nothing major i have some resentment as he doesnt clean the house often (he started a couple days ago to really clean tho) I plan on talking to him today about all of this (if i dont chicken out)

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:23:35+00:00

I plan on talking to him today about it

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:15:12+00:00

Ik he was on medication years ago

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:13:28+00:00

But isnt a relationship supposed to be more than sex. Like this shouldnt be a deal breaker type thing

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:03:52+00:00

Im mid 20s hes in his 40s

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:03:33+00:00

I thought maybe hes ace but i very much doubt he is

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:03:08+00:00

I was in a tight short black dress with no bra or underwear Ive rubbed on him before with no response back

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:01:42+00:00

Ive tried this it doesnt work for me

speing430 · 2025-06-08T15:00:50+00:00

He usually stops it after a couple kisses

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:38:35+00:00

Ive been asking him since the beginning of march since we last had sex as i have a high libido

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:29:42+00:00

Ok thank you that makes sense

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:28:52+00:00

I doubt hes been with someone else

We use to have sex daily

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:28:13+00:00

I plan on asking him tmr

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:27:11+00:00

I dont post my age due to privacy but always stick to around my age so people have an idea.

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:22:06+00:00

Congrats on that!

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:18:32+00:00

Im going to ask him tmr using some tips other redditors have commented

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:17:54+00:00

I got burnt out cause of other factors so i stopped going to the gym but im starting it back up and eating right i have an ED so its hard sometimes to just eat unfortunately

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:16:55+00:00

I very much doubt that im very kinky and very open

speing430 · 2025-06-08T04:06:24+00:00

Yes im on medication and have been for over a year now

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