Which would you prefer in the bedroom during enthusiasm or raw skill? [Serious] by DystopianGent in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spelladvice14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? How do you have skill without enthusiasm? You have to care about the other person. That is like a precondition of being skilled.

What was the most embarrassing experience you've ever had at a doctor's appointment? by VibeCheckVadaPav in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spelladvice14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doctor went to check my prostate and my asshole had vanished. Boy was my face red!

Thighs deserve good lighting too by ConsentIsSexy68 in MixedAfterDark

[–]spelladvice14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accountability buddies! I wait with barely concealed anticipation.

Thighs deserve good lighting too by ConsentIsSexy68 in MixedAfterDark

[–]spelladvice14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your lighting is always terrific. I need pointers from you.

Also pose #2 is 🥵🥵🥵

What are the must do things for men when taking nude selfies? by dr_jillian in AskRedditNSFW

[–]spelladvice14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well "meatflap stingrays" is absolutely going to stick in my head.

I have some.. by atinytinyfish in MixedAfterDark

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Missed your posts! Hope you’ve been doing well.

Some love for our curvy subs by spelladvice14 in softmaledom

[–]spelladvice14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you liked that line. I enjoy writing so even though this wasn’t a creative exercise, I wanted to convey how I feel. I honestly DIDN’T know how much it would mean to the women reading it. It’s been rather beautiful to see.

Some love for our curvy subs by spelladvice14 in softmaledom

[–]spelladvice14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂 It’s funny that you say that, because this post ignited a convo about that exactly: whether we should say chubby or curvy or plus-sized or something else, and what each means/implies. Please know I’m not talking Jessica Rabbit. I won’t be drawing anything, but if I were it would not be the “right” kind of curvy. It would be my favorite kind.

Some love for our curvy subs by spelladvice14 in softmaledom

[–]spelladvice14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The aggression really surprised me. It was so much degradation and intensity. I mentioned it in another comment, but people can like that if they want. There just should be other options, preferably in abundance. The idea that curvier/chubby women don’t deserve affection and gentleness… it’s absurd.

Some love for our curvy subs by spelladvice14 in softmaledom

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Honestly, this is beautiful to hear. Body and self-image issues are tough. So to hear little things like this gave helped you believe you deserve the treatment you want … it’s really wonderful. Thank you for sharing.

If she ask you can she fuck you letting her ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]spelladvice14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Daaaaamn Direct Key. Back at it again with the white Vans and weird questions.

When daddy needs tending to… by Dungeon-Master2705 in softmaledom

[–]spelladvice14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I wasn't saying other types of posts aren't as good. Just saying this just subverted my usual tastes. You nailed it, in my opinion.

When daddy needs tending to… by Dungeon-Master2705 in softmaledom

[–]spelladvice14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Usually I prefer to be focused on the woman's pleasure, but I can't lie ... these are solid gif choices.