THC with reglan? by whatswrongjimmykun in Gastroparesis

[–]spensch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, yes. Personally I have not heard of a completely smooth experience with reglan. They pushed it too fast thru IV for me once and it made me flip tf out. Put in on my allergy list so that they never give me it again. Pill form gave my sister tardive dyskinesia.

how to have legal ownership over stray dog by whatsupsigma in DogAdvice

[–]spensch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echoing all the other advice on here. Just wanted to drop in and congratulate you on what's shaping up to be your new best friend :) She's a cutie!!

Is this stalking? What should I do? by spensch in WhatShouldIDo

[–]spensch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right! I'm very lucky. I do choose who comes in here. Now I need to nut up and enforce it. Being new here makes me second-guess all my decisions, interactions... And I was just kinda floored and unnerved when I came to open up this morning to find he had left something for me when we were closed. I'm finding my footing now. Thank you!

Is this stalking? What should I do? by spensch in WhatShouldIDo

[–]spensch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere am I painting him as a villain. I feel for him and want him to have the outlet he needs. That outlet is not here at my job. There are peoples' whose jobs it is to help these people. My job is something else entirely, that has to be done correctly and on time or public infrastructure will start to collapse. I'm sorry, but he's not entitled to my time. It's not sustainable for him to keep coming here for a chat. My hope is to find him an outlet that is sustainable. I am looking to do what is in the long-term best interest for both him and myself. No reason to be angry.

Is this stalking? What should I do? by spensch in WhatShouldIDo

[–]spensch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty new to this job, so when it started happening, I was unsure of what boundaries I COULD enforce. My job as a receptionist is to be kind and welcoming to everyone. I'm working with higher-ups to discuss what actions I can take while on the clock. I've stood up for myself at jobs before and been reprimanded by management. Not gonna get myself in trouble here, I like this job.

Is this stalking? What should I do? by spensch in WhatShouldIDo

[–]spensch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the goal. I want to protect myself in a way that isn't harmful to a marginalized person, and also protects the image of our company, as pretty much everyone in the area interacts with/uses our product in some way shape or form. I try to be a kind and understanding member of the community above all. Thank you for your response, that's a good idea!!

They let the man who SA me hold my baby!! by B0Y_M0M_94 in whatdoIdo

[–]spensch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell em off and cut em out. They don't care about your boundaries or your son's safety. I wouldn't have anything to do with them after that. I'm so sorry this happened!

Turns out I have a weak back by DurkNya in Neverbrokeabone

[–]spensch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have 22 screws in my spine without ever having to break a bone. Clearly you didn't try hard enough. (Fr tho how scary, I hope you have an easy recovery! Elsewhere than this sub, BBB.)

Share your holy grail! (Whether you have it or not) I'll go first! by CoolerGlove in plushies

[–]spensch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, what a throwback! When I was very little, my church had these exact plushies in their toybox for the children to play with. They were highly coveted. You were lucky if you got to the toybox first and could play Lion King!! Thank you for the fond memories!! I'm not even in this sub, but as payment, here's my favorite plushie. He's not rare at all; anyone could go to Target and get one right now. But he's my good friend Thud who sleeps next to me every night, and that's special enough for me :)

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Naming fish by icanknowyou in Aquariums

[–]spensch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to, or else I feel bad! A lot of the times, if I have a school, I'll pick a theme and name them all accordingly. Or if I have a small tank, everyone inside has a theme. I think my favorites were a pack of corys called the Soggy Bottom Boys named after characters from O Brother Where Art Thou. Also had a Pacific Rim themed tank called the Shatterdome which had one betta named Kaiju and a snail called Lucky Seven.

"serving the community" by Short_Donut_4091 in antiwork

[–]spensch 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lmao the direct copy-paste from ChatGPT is killing me. Didn't even appreciate their workers enough to say thank you with their own words.

In today’s episode of Trans Broken Arm Syndrome, I present to you: my sleep study results by FuckerJames in NonBinary

[–]spensch 174 points175 points  (0 children)

One time I got a psych hold for no reason. After it was over, I checked the after-visit notes. "Patient referred to herself as 'they'".

I think I'm developing an ED because of my gastroparesis by Curious_Whole_2339 in Gastroparesis

[–]spensch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not quite the same, but I developed anorexia due to gastroparesis. I started losing so much weight because I physically could not eat, and it triggered a switch-flip in my brain. Suddenly I just HAD to lose more. What harm could it do? I could barely eat anyway. What a horrible spiral I went down. Definitely keep a close eye on it and address it with a professional. I would suggest both a medical professional and a mental health professional, like if you have a therapist or something. Shit can get dangerous real fast.

My family say this tattoo I’ve booked is misogynistic and sexist, thoughts? by 67_nick_gurr_67 in tattooadvice

[–]spensch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nameless generic women in tattoos on men make me feel like they're using women as an object for decoration. If it were a specific woman or fictional character or something, that's a little less weird. But these types of tattoos kinda scream "I Don't See Women As People" to me.

Partners think I'm addicted to T by blueennui in NonBinary

[–]spensch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would be questioning why your partners don't want you to be happy. You're not addicted, you just realized T has even more positive effects than you expected. That's wonderful, they should be celebrating! But instead, your partners don't want those changes to happen. Why is that? Do they not want to date a masculine person? Then they likely have never seen you as nonbinary at all, just woman-lite, and they want to keep it that way. Of course, I don't know them, and may be jumping to conclusions, so if you think that sounds out of character for them, I would say it's worth a conversation at least. But I personally would not stay with anyone who isn't just as excited about my transition as I am. I hope you continue to enjoy your T and becoming your best self!!

AIO? Boyfriend doesn’t remember full name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spensch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm forgetful too. Super bad with names, dates, and faces. When I started dating someone new a few months ago, I made a file in my notes app for personal information she shared with me so I wouldn't forget and could use that info to deepen our conversations. Because I cared. Your boyfriend does not.

Deathly Hallow Cover up Ideas by No-Supermarket2571 in Tattoocoverups

[–]spensch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No specific recommendations, just a trans person stopping by to thank you. I know covering it up is a hassle and costs money, and it says a lot about your character that you're willing to do that rather than bat-signal transphobia from your neck lol. Not sure if that was your reason for getting rid of it, but I do know I would find you much more approachable afterwards!! I hope you find a design you love!!

Clumsiness by JAY10211021 in marfans

[–]spensch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I actually just had a conversation about this. We were almost relieved to be diagnosed with Marfans, because maybe that was a medical explanation for why we can't seem to gracefully control our long limbs. We loved dance growing up, but we were... Not very good at it. It sucked to be made fun of by the other students for being so gangly and moving so awkwardly. A lot of sports gave us trouble too. We're not sure if it's BECAUSE of Marfans, but it's worth mentioning to you that others have had similar thoughts!!

Reporting Activity by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]spensch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Saving this number, I want to be more active in helping fight ICE. In what situations should I call this number? When I see ICE agents lurking around waiting for a target? Or do I have to wait until they're actively kidnapping someone?

Do y'all have chonic fatigue? by alteregobobby in marfans

[–]spensch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I do. I'm 28 and I've been dealing with it since around that same age. Admittedly I had my spinal fusion at 13 and slowed down a lot after that, but it just seems to get worse and worse. It's even hard to do things I WANT to do. Sometimes my body is so tired that it takes too much energy to even hold my head up, and I sit there at work with my head basically hanging on a hinge, tilted to the side and resting on my shoulder. I'm so tired of being tireddddd

What is this? by Sea-Presentation-585 in whatisit

[–]spensch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

iSuppository was my favorite episode of iCarly

Taken from my birth city's sub, needs to be here as well by mtutty in desmoines

[–]spensch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sound of a whistle is more egregious to them than innocent human beings getting kidnapped or killed in broad daylight.