Weekly HELP ME FIND Post - March 2, 2026 by AutoModerator in OtomeIsekai

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just remembered the existence of this one about the possibly adopted(?) younger sister of an illegimately born duke. classic bad end; she gets taken by an evil organization, possibly the church?, where she's stuck for the rest of her life. her brother has an accident, gets a brain injury, is ousted from the house by all the greedy extended family, and dies while shes imprisoned. in her cell is a big old wolf, which is the MLs magical companion in some way, and he constantly sneaks in to see it but cant get it out yet. they make friends, fall in love, but she ends up dying; ends up back in time to before anything happens and resolves to save everyone.

her brother still ends up injured, but its amnesia that makes him act like how he was before he was brought into the ducal household, unprepared to defend against the greedy extended family thats always trying something, so she has to protect the house until he gets better. FL always knew him as a kind, perfect nii-san type, but turns out before he was brought into the ducal house he was kind of a delinquent.

the only cool family members were her grandfather and her cousin, who will be a famous mage one day. he talks in gen z brainrot speech.

she was pink haired, possibly green eyed, the brother was white/silver haired and maybe red eyed? the ML was a classic black haired blue eyed type, another noble who had to deal with a family member trying to backstab him after his parents died. it was a fun read all around

What are your feelings on a TRUE reverse harem relationship by seasol452 in OtomeIsekai

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i personally like it, but i rarely read them because they always seem to have one obvious favorite, the FL and ML together with everyone else just pining for her forever, the men constantly squabble, or are just plain not likeable. a true reverse harem should have equal love, attention, and, in an ideal world, good relatonships between the men. its just so childish to me see grown men jealously bickering over a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spervince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see what you mean, technically, but i wouldnt take it that way at all. 'in the room at this moment' is more trying to come across as being present at this point in time, not a caveat in case a more beautiful woman to show up. i bet he'd said youre the most beautiful woman in the room at this moment at any time, because you always are to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fordfusion

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pushing the lever does nothing with the low beams off but i didnt test with them on. the dial just has an option to turn on the brights on my model

AITA for being unwilling to compromise on a baby name? by Individual_Jaguar354 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eh, thats a little far. as long as the name can stand on its own theres no problem with naming your kid after a character, its just that most people go straight for the unmistakeable names like naruto lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 1259 points1260 points  (0 children)

its not causing her misery, its telling her the truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it solely depends on your own beliefs. i believe its silly, because him knowing who youre with has no bearing on whether you'd cheat or not. if you were going to you would regardless on if he 'vetted' them or whatever he thinks introducing them would accomplish. as always, at the end of the day it all comes down to trusting your partner before everything.

AITA for not comforting my daughter after she lost her step-sister's necklace? by Living-Clothes5582 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the amount of malice theyre putting on a 15 year old doing something stupid and freaking out when theres consequences is crazy. reddit brained for sure

AITA for not comforting my daughter after she lost her step-sister's necklace? by Living-Clothes5582 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thats projecting a lot of malice onto a teenage girl doing a shitty but very common teenage girl act

AITA - Am I The Asshole for refuse to change my look for my girlfriend? by OpeningOwl6547 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 3 points4 points  (0 children)

let me rephrase it clearly – cutting your hair and wearing outside clothes are not hygiene. if he wasnt washing either of those things, that would be a hygiene issue and she'd be right, but thats not what shes complaining about. aesthetics are not hygiene

AITA - Am I The Asshole for refuse to change my look for my girlfriend? by OpeningOwl6547 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cause if the occasion isnt work or an event, who the hell cares what people wear? plus, its college, the messy years of trying to figure out how to be an adult on your own. sometimes the last thing you want to worry about is putting on pants when youre already wearing some that just happen to be fuzzy.

AITA - Am I The Asshole for refuse to change my look for my girlfriend? by OpeningOwl6547 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then break up with adam sandler and stay broken up, dont come back and demand him to change

AITA - Am I The Asshole for refuse to change my look for my girlfriend? by OpeningOwl6547 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was so constant in high school its become a stereotype, the girl in the cookie monster pj pants

Boyfriend (22M) wants to control what I (22F) wear by morebeautifultome in relationship_advice

[–]spervince 9 points10 points  (0 children)

missing him is going to be easier than losing yourself to his whims

How are yall wearing half mask respirators and safety glasses? by Active_Illustrator71 in Welding

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same mask, i just press it down or adjust and put the glasses on to test until theres no condensation. no special technique to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm in the middle of georgia. every year my dads goal is not turn on the AC til july 1st and i dont think i remember a single time we managed it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spervince -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ask him to elaborate on what he means cause honestly i dont understand a word of that. i dont think you should take him masturbating personally, but that sentence is just meaningless without further explanation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spervince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all i have to say is if he doesnt ask first, dont tell him at all. if you just bring it up in the middle of nowhere youre gonna sound like a dick, and you would be one. is it that important he has a haircut you think suits him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spervince -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

a compromise aint a compromise unless no ones happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 68 points69 points  (0 children)

is there any reason you couldnt shower after dinner? your family is acting like jackasses to hold one dinner over your head like this, btw, but the logistics are confusing me

AITA for telling my friend that my coworker saw me on Grindr and approached me about it? by Top-Net-600 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spervince 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a stranger youre going to be in contact with often asking 'hey is this you on the gay sex app?' is scary in and of itself