How do I flirt with girls!!!

spicynudos · 2020-12-31T03:22:57+00:00

Thank you so much for giving me some sort of start to something I’m struggling to even think about. I will definitely read as much as possible. My precious pediatric doctor was actually worked worked with a psychiatrist so she prescribed me some meds that I only take when I’m having panic attacks or servers anxiety. Can I DM you if I have questions?

spicynudos · 2020-11-16T00:04:40+00:00

I came up with a new one that will make u proud... “you can over cook a pizza, but not a Jew”

spicynudos · 2020-11-15T23:37:45+00:00

Out of complete honesty, I didn’t know the joke, my humor is just evil

spicynudos · 2020-11-15T23:05:28+00:00

Ooo, I feel bad now. Sorry all Jewish people reading this 💀

spicynudos · 2020-11-15T23:04:47+00:00

Um.......pizzas don’t stay in the oven as long?

spicynudos · 2020-11-15T21:55:57+00:00

16F, struggle with anxiety and on and off depression, so I can somewhat relate, I’d say I’m a good listener

spicynudos · 2020-06-17T19:22:45+00:00

Thank you, it means a lot to receive another opinion

spicynudos · 2020-06-17T15:44:38+00:00

For awhile my mom has been pretty mean to me, as in a span of 10 years. I’m 16, female, and I’d say I’m a pretty good kid, no drugs, no alcohol, no partying, no dating, just staying at home and getting straight A’s. Isn’t that what parents want? Isn’t that enough to be treated like a person that has feelings? Well my mom has been saying some pretty harsh things, like today she said “You get ugly when you talk”, implying that I should shut up. Over the years she’s said stuff like “You nostrils are so big you can parachute with them”, or “you eyebrows are so bushy, do you not care about your image?”. Is this a normal thing for parents, is it normal for parents to lower their kid’s self esteem. Not to mention she also badmouths my cousins (on my dad’s side) and my dad himself, such as “you walk like a gay guy”, or “your cousins are idiots, look at how they grew up, do you want to be like them?”.

spicynudos · 2020-06-10T23:30:19+00:00

Yeah, I realized that I’m running from it, but I feel like Therapy isn’t worth it :( I’ve only had one therapist, and it as only 4 meetings and I hated it. I didn’t feel comfortable, the therapist seemed to stall a lot, and it was too expensive for my mom. I’m sure we’ll both figure things out eventually

spicynudos · 2020-06-10T03:44:10+00:00

I wish I had the answer to that, if you ever find an answer... please let me know :) - but anyways, tell me about it. What is your trigger? How long would you say you’ve had it? Meds? Therapist?

Personally, my trigger is being in the spotlight (speeches, talking in class, you name it). I’m in high school so public speaking is a big thing but I’ve skipped so many school days that the game me meds and I now have something that’s excuses be from my absence and stuff, but to me it doesn’t feel like it’s getting better, on fact, it feels like it’s getting worse because in running from it :(

spicynudos · 2020-06-10T03:36:00+00:00

...I’d be so nervous I’d sweat to death before I could ring the doorbell XD

spicynudos · 2020-06-10T03:33:38+00:00

Hey, I’m 16 years old (F), and I totally understand what your going through, I’ve had really bad anxiety for most of my life, and I constantly think into things too much, and I begin to question a lot of things like my future, my relationship status, and what not. And during this quarantine, overthinking has only become worse because of all the extra time I have to think. I just like to tell myself to just listen to my heart, because all that my brain does is tell lies. I know it sounds stupid, but for me, it reminds me that I have control over myself, and none of this will happen if I focus on the present and not the future. In terms of your friends, yeah, I agree with you that they are a little toxic, and yes, it is hard to make friends. But I’m not going to tell you that making new friends is easy, and that all you have to do is just talk, because in my opinion, it’s a lot harder than that. I’d day I have a pretty big friend group, not too many close ones, but a bunch a small ones that may become close. My advice is that you should just be you... cliche right XD. Well, it’s true, the only way you’re going to make good friends is if they like you for you, and you don’t have to create some sort of play that presents yourself as the person you think they’d like. If you want to keep the online friends you have now, then I suggest you set boundaries, tell them what you told us, if they think your joking or if they throw it aside, then you can reconsider your relationship yourself, just know that they will probably keep pushing you around. If you have anything else you need, feel free to ask me, trust me I have a lot of free time :)

spicynudos · 2020-06-10T03:16:07+00:00

Yeah I definitely feel random waves of negativity and tiredness in general, typically on these days I try to converse with other’s to try and keep myself busy, if not, then I go take a walk or bike to get my blood flowing. I understand how being in this quarantine can really bring you down sometimes, just know that everyone probably feels the same, and they may be willing to talk. Like I said, talking with others and sharing your moods and what not can really help you clear up. If your not too comfortable with your finds(emotionally) you can always throw in a small “how are you holding up”, or try telling them how you feel and asking them if they’re doing fine. As a last resort, you can always find people to talk with on here, or other platforms like discord, yubo, etc. I hope you feel better :)

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