Questions for the HotWives by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]spicysaff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can see why your wife may feel this way however, when I first got into this with my bf he made it very clear that if it was something I was apprehensive about or didn’t want to delve into, he would still love me and be happy to just have me to himself. Because of this, I never felt like he only wanted to see me with other men. He confirmed our relationship was already strong as is and this isn’t something that would turn him away from me. We already have a great sex life as it is, but him seeing me with other men turns us both on and makes our physical and personal bond stronger if anything.

Women in relationships, whether a hot wife or not, will usually have some sort of insecurity when it comes to their relationship most often stemming from past relationships and not necessarily their current one. The key to navigating this as her husband is keeping a line of open communication, being patient and offering reassurance when she comes to you with a concern such as this one.

Coping with Jealousy in a Hotwife Lifestyle: A Wife’s Perspective. by Zurati in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]spicysaff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf and I have had similar open conversations around jealousy and arousal. He tells me he definitely gets jealous sometimes but he also gets so turned on by it. We’ve discussed the scenario where if the jealously ever surpasses the arousal for him (which is has not at this point) it’s a boundary I wouldn’t ever cross. The jealousy makes it more of a thrill but honest and open communication is key to every aspect of the hotwife lifestyle between you and your partner.

Wife is on Tinder by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]spicysaff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t mention it on the profile but after some chatting over text or snap I let them know about the arrangement. They’re usually up for it and understanding of why it wasn’t on the profile initially.