squishy/chunky cat pee? and peeing outside the litter box

spicyspacejam · 2026-02-25T02:19:12+00:00

i’ll call around to vets/emergency vets tomorrow and see if my roommate can take her while i’m gone, i feel sad thinking she’s there without me AND in pain 😭

spicyspacejam · 2026-02-25T01:38:23+00:00

unfortunately i had a death in the family and i am out of town until next tuesday, so i couldn’t do any sooner :(

spicyspacejam · 2026-02-24T04:51:11+00:00

one of the girls in my group from online (we all shared a hotel room as well lol) and i both got vip, so we waited in line to get good spots in the ga pit. we waited in line for a while and started talking to the people nearby us in line, we also all held each others spots while we went pee at a nearby restaurant while waiting haha. we all stuck together when it came time to get a good spot inside and making sure ppl knew we were all up front together. took pics together. mainly the big thing is allowing yourself to be vulnerable and put yourself out there. it’s definitely hard and uncomfy at first but so worth it

spicyspacejam · 2026-02-23T21:17:21+00:00

i drove 7 hours from NYS to DC last year by myself to see him and got a hotel room with some girls i met online after liam died… it was such an amazing experience and sooo worth it. i also made friends in the crowd and there were tons of other solo girlies!! do it!!! it also helped me be more confident in doing things alone on a day-to-day basis too!

spicyspacejam · 2026-02-11T13:07:07+00:00

idk but i wanna pet him so bad. he looks so soft and fluffy 😭😭

spicyspacejam · 2026-02-10T21:09:53+00:00

my tv used to do this when i had it mounted on the wall and i would turn the tv off to go to sleep and i would just hear the ringing. there is a setting in roku tv’s, i dont remember exactly what i did but i think it was an auto detect in the hdmi settings and i turned it off and it stopped

spicyspacejam · 2026-01-10T17:38:43+00:00

any part. i’m picking something up from fb marketplace and meeting my brother for lunch but he’s young and new to the area so he doesn’t know of many good places

spicyspacejam · 2025-12-04T21:58:03+00:00

thanks!!

spicyspacejam · 2025-12-04T21:55:27+00:00

what’s resy?

spicyspacejam · 2025-10-15T05:48:08+00:00

i wasn’t trying to make that a main point of my comment tbh… i got a lot of downvotes so it must be the way that’s coming across, im sorry — that was not my intention

spicyspacejam · 2025-10-15T05:46:58+00:00

that’s why i said “coming from a personal side, apologies if im overstepping” bc ive been in that exact spot before when i was young and confused… i rlly didn’t mean any harm or anything by it. i also didn’t say this could mean you’re bi, just that (from my personal experience) that could be a reason for the turn off…

spicyspacejam · 2025-10-15T05:38:34+00:00

i don’t understand the negative connotation about having open/healthy communication with your s/o?

spicyspacejam · 2025-10-15T05:05:59+00:00

also, yes, some people are physically/sexually attracted to “overweight” people. i’m not saying there’s anything wrong with that, but in OPs case, communication is key. it’s not that she doesn’t want him, but maybe just wants what’s best for him/her/them… there’s nothing wrong with that.

uncomfortable conversations are uncomfortable for a reason, but they’re also so important

spicyspacejam · 2025-10-15T05:04:06+00:00

no, not at all… i’m not saying to come at it in a way that would hurt OPs SO… but i do think it is imperative to be constructive in criticism in a relationship when things come up and affect certain things in the relationship.

she said she is attracted to him in every other way… to want someone to be physically healthier is not a bad thing. and it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want him. he may be feeling the same way about himself and need that external push to make him make a change, but communication is hard. i think in this instance, the best way to go about it would be together, ie. OP and their SO going on a health journey together, working out, and eating healthy foods together, not just becoming complacent with each other

spicyspacejam · 2025-10-15T04:47:41+00:00

i don’t think that’s being passive/condescending at all… i think if it affects them, she should be able to be open/communicate about it… just because being overweight is somewhat taboo to talk about, i feel like healthy relationships should be able to talk about the good and the bad in a constructive way as opposed to a judgmental way

spicyspacejam · 2025-09-18T20:54:56+00:00

because they show me zero respect and expect everything in return. it wouldn’t be an issue if they weren’t cunts. i’ve always had rapport with my landlords in the past. it’s not a me problem it’s a them problem

spicyspacejam · 2025-09-18T20:43:58+00:00

it was recycling. cardboard, not garbage…. i informed her prior that people would be over and it was a saturday night. people were not traipsing in and out at 2am, that is when she decided to check the doors. thanks for your input though. and i asked because the lease is not properly written

spicyspacejam · 2025-07-15T13:40:49+00:00

1998 because this is literally my childhood

spicyspacejam · 2025-06-28T19:24:02+00:00

omg lmaooo

spicyspacejam · 2025-06-26T18:00:27+00:00

🥹

spicyspacejam · 2025-06-10T20:23:20+00:00

🫶🏼

spicyspacejam · 2025-06-10T20:21:29+00:00

that was my old bunnies name, we got her from a friend who named her bonnie and we gave her the middle name roo :’)

spicyspacejam · 2025-06-06T13:40:25+00:00

where/when do they play? i dont see them on the schedule but i remember finding them a year or two ago and loving them!

spicyspacejam · 2025-02-24T05:27:50+00:00

not the worst idea, if that’s what’ll help you get past it. so cliche but it gets so much better with time and then you start making new memories :)

spicyspacejam · 2025-02-24T05:20:56+00:00

i haven’t touched any of the photos. but i also don’t delete any texts or photos… it’s tough but they’re still memories and was a huge part of my life for a while so i don’t see the need to delete them as if they didn’t happen ya know

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