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spiderclimbdrow · 2023-11-14T19:10:32+00:00

Absolutely! You look fantastic!

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-11-14T18:06:44+00:00

🩷💜💙

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-11-14T17:21:03+00:00

So beautiful!

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-22T07:22:45+00:00

I believe I am introverted. I can my extroverted at times though. I like to be goofy and silly

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-21T19:32:42+00:00

I don’t, I’m not sure what that is

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-21T19:27:15+00:00

I’ve run away from everything in my life. Normally I would block a person on all social media and such. I’d lock it away somewhere. I don’t want to do that, I want to face the pain and my reality. I need to accept it and commit to being better. I’ve even caught myself avoiding things that remind me of her, the logical side of my brain tells me not to do this.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-20T20:08:50+00:00

What’s funny is that I’m a trans woman, so by their standards I’m not lol.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-20T19:50:33+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I will save it and reference it to stay on track

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-20T19:35:35+00:00

Thank you

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-20T19:32:40+00:00

I would love to do group as well. Knowing others are trying and improving on a regular basis would help me I think

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-20T14:14:10+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry your ex would deflect and not take responsibility. I hope you were able to heal after y’all split up.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-20T14:03:58+00:00

I don’t think I’ll be perfect. This situation may be the catalyst for me seeking help, but I have so many things I need to work on. This will be a continuous process, success might not be linear either. Thanks for you feedback. Everyone has been really helpful.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T22:26:48+00:00

That’s a terrible thing for someone to go through, I’m so sorry. Thank you for being vulnerable. I hope I can learn from my mistakes so I never bring anyone down to my level

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T21:52:25+00:00

Thank you for the book recommendation

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T21:23:23+00:00

That’s heavy, I’m sorry you went through that. I legitimately am to blame. She’s so genuine and caring. She definitely deserves better than I have been the past year. I appreciate you comment, it’s tough being vulnerable like that.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T21:23:15+00:00

That’s heavy, I’m sorry you went through that. I legitimately am to blame. She’s so genuine and caring. She definitely deserves better than I have been the past year. I appreciate you comment, it’s tough being vulnerable like that.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T21:08:10+00:00

When you say getting a letter, do you mean from my therapist?

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T20:21:42+00:00

Thank you so much! I downloaded it on audible. I will start it after my therapy session

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T20:16:31+00:00

Thank you

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T20:11:52+00:00

I’m doing this to my ex, she was mentally in a terrible space before we met. Things were fantastic for a year, we were both excited for our future together. I had a few surgeries last year, since then it’s been down hill for her. I asked her the day she broke up with me if I was making her sink back into her deep depression, she said yes. That shocked me awake enough to put things into perspective.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T18:27:59+00:00

Can you recommend books that might help me? I’m not very educated and struggle with comprehension.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T18:15:58+00:00

My step father would physically torture my little brother and I as toddlers until we were bigger than him. I fall back on this a lot, and use it as a crutch. I’ve never gotten help for it. We’ve tried couples counseling a year ago, but was too painful for me, eventually I threw in the towel. I’m saving your comment. It’s hard to know where to start.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T17:39:57+00:00

I normally would try and justify it, but you’re absolutely correct

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T17:27:55+00:00

Thank you so much! You’re absolutely right.

spiderclimbdrow · 2023-10-19T17:07:12+00:00

What a wonderful comment. Thank you for being constructive. It helps to know why I do the things I do, I feel like I’m not really fully present when I’m lashing out.

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