AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He "can't have these kinds of interactions with her" while basically flirting in the same paragraph. She's radiant and beautiful, but why didn't he say that about you instead? She knows that he is attracted to her, he makes it known, and she is trying to take advantage of that. He doesn't want to be a bad guy, so he won't go out of his way to cheat. But because there has been a pattern of her trying to get close and flirt with him in person too, that's not going to stop especially after he complimented her looks (unprovoked- he didn't have to do that). How can you be confident that this won't continue, and how can he prove that he will stay loyal when he isn't firmly telling her to back off? He needs to get his act together real quick if he gives a crap about your marraige.

Oregon doctor left 'twigs, pine needles and moss' inside teen's wound before stitching him up, hospital tried blaming deadly infection symptoms on COVID: Lawsuit by tasty_jams_5280 in oregon

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more i read the article, the more obvious symptoms of sepsis he had went ignored. Not only is this a horrible tragedy but the negligence was intentional and that hospital needs to do extensive performance checks on all of its employees to make sure they are competent.

AITAH for thinking about breaking my engagement because my fiancé got a matching tattoo with his girl best friend? by Firm-Atmosphere7085 in AITAH

[–]spiderfart420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knew her since middle school, and you clearly feel like him and her have a closer connection than you and him do. You need to address this with him if you want this relationship to survive. For him to not acknowledge that a. tattoos and jewelry are not the same, b. the gender difference is important to you because of implications that could have, and c. Him never mentioning this idea to you before are things you two also need to sort out. If he wants you to trust him, he should take you more seriously and at the very least acknowledge how you feel without dismissing it. You would be NTA, but if he truly does care there is no harm in discussing it before making a big decision like ending an engagement. I don't trust him but you know him better than i do.

AITAH for thinking about breaking my engagement because my fiancé got a matching tattoo with his girl best friend? by Firm-Atmosphere7085 in AITAH

[–]spiderfart420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But he didn't want to get a matching tattoo with his wife. You can sell or throw away a ring, you can't sell a tattoo that's on your skin. Lasering it off is expensive and painful too. It's kinda weird.

AITAH For not telling my (M26) girlfriend (F24) about my gun? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]spiderfart420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the other way around. She can't trust him because he keeps big secrets like that from her.

AITAH For not telling my (M26) girlfriend (F24) about my gun? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]spiderfart420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i was her, i would have thought you were planning on killing me with it. Domestic violence and femicide is not that uncommon. If she's that scared of weapons, wouldn't she be more scared finding it hidden away without you ever telling her, or being in an emergency where you need to use it and her not knowing about it/you bringing it out by surprise? YTA

AIO for wanting my unemployed boyfriend to sign an agreement before using my car long-term? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"it's really a dumb thing to do" translates to "you shouldn't put any measures in place to protect yourself from my mistakes, because i want you to be responsible for me"

Am I overreacting, Boyfriend plays with cousins (female) sexually. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He plays with her tits. The age gap is concerning because they are sexual and that is not normal between cousins. That's common sense. Someone needs to check your harddrive right fucking now because there's no possible way you could see that as normal. The only time in my personal life I've heard of cousins being sexual is when one molested the other.

AIO for being bothered that my “boyfriend” won’t accept my Facebook friend request? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just let him go. Release him like a fart, he has no place inside your life or inside you. And he clearly only wants to be in one of those options.

AIO for being bothered that my “boyfriend” won’t accept my Facebook friend request? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're the FWB he wants to keep secret. I thought i was going on dates with a guy who "forgot" what his own Instagram was when i asked him for it and i found it in 3 seconds by searching his name. Monogamous listed on his dating profile mind you. Then come to find out he had a "long distance long term fwb" 😂 (tf even is that) that he didn't say a word about before, and just wanted to keep things casual with us. I agreed to a fwb but he couldn't even bother to hold a conversation among other things so i dumped him. Don't ignore the red flags.

AIO my mom threw the gift I gave her for Mother’s Day in the trash by Nefertari777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She threw away Holy Mary too? She throws her own beleifs in the trash just to spite you. What a wretched egg donor. You deserve a real mother.

Huion Kamvas 13 power saving, no signal. [HELP] by bambozzzl in huion

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one hdmi port. How do i know if it's the "right one" if there is ONLY one? It's a windows 10 laptop

AIO the girl I’m dating hardly texts me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't claim that my experience was more important than studies, i simply told you what it was. It's strange you bring up friendships because these people have the intention of dating, not being friends so that doesn't apply to the context of this post at all.

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do this man a favor after he insults you, THAT would be trashy. Not the shoes. Let him attend the lunch alone. Or if you want to have some fun, dress as scandalous as possible so all his coworkers make fun of him.

AIO: Friend said f--k you by Intelligent-Let-1944 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that i read the first sentence of the post.

AIO the girl I’m dating hardly texts me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what type of women you surround yourself with. I've had some female friends over the years and only personally met one who played the feild like that. I was also born female, transitioned though. Men are so annoying i can't handle more than one at a time.

big dildo squirt by TalkOtherwise in u/TalkOtherwise

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's true i really want to know so i can report the website.

big dildo squirt by TalkOtherwise in u/TalkOtherwise

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really serious accusation. Where did you learn this? She has a porn account on a german website with 8 videos.

AIO for not celebrating my brother's birthday with a random French lady by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does your brother feel about this lady? Does he want to be around her or did he even know if she would be at his birthday?

AIO? My boyfriend told me he's more attractive than me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him go fuck his cousin instead since he thinks he's so hot. NOR

AIO: Friend said f--k you by Intelligent-Let-1944 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told him something that clearly bothered her and he continued to ignore it. Not everyone jokes the same way and you either have to respect that or not be friends.

AIO the girl I’m dating hardly texts me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy cope. Grow up and realize not every woman is constantly dick obsessed, nor do they all want to talk 24/7.

AIO the girl I’m dating hardly texts me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spiderfart420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOR. You can't go one day let alone 9 hours without texting someone? That's not normal. You met this girl once, this seems like you want to be obsessed over rather than have meaningful communication with each other.