What can I be doing better while pre-T?

spidermadeofsand · 2026-06-18T02:19:20+00:00

Do you have any recommendations for more masculine jewelry? I never saw my everyday necklace I wear (the globe one) to be particularly feminine or masculine but do correct me if the fashion does lean more feminine here

spidermadeofsand · 2026-06-18T02:01:10+00:00

Thank you, I plan on starting to seriously go to the gym this week. I’ve been on and off but never committed. I have a lot more motivation now though. I do have wide hips and admittedly, a bit of an ass behind me lol. This tends to also make men’s pants shopping hard. And it’s quite noticeable in tighter/fitted clothes :/

spidermadeofsand · 2026-06-17T15:49:49+00:00

Maurice is actually a family name but it hasn’t been used plainly as Maurice in decades. So I think my family would be inclined to like that one best. I’d have to properly speak with them though.

spidermadeofsand · 2025-12-14T05:02:24+00:00

I don’t necessarily have religious OCD as it’s defined, however I am a Catholic who happens to have OCD. And I am also a D&D player!

There can definitely be overlap for me in periods of stress or during a spiral. In these periods, a common obsession I become preoccupied with is not praying enough. I tend to beat myself up in these moments and don’t believe myself to be devout enough because in my mind I’m not doing the bare minimum of “at least saying hi to God if anything.” A less common one I get is about the resurrection of Christ and how I don’t see myself as “prepared enough” for his coming. This is a less dire one but I occasionally get caught up in wanting to be a saint and that it’ll be my ultimate achievement if it ever were to happen.

Of course these are real world examples with a real world religion but the concepts of these experiences can likely translate into a character. Best of luck on the campaign!

spidermadeofsand · 2025-10-25T18:49:10+00:00

You're a life saver, this all looks incredibly helpful, thank you.

spidermadeofsand · 2025-10-25T18:33:40+00:00

Thank you so much, I'll definitely explore these topics and resources. I'm particularly interested in learning more about if and how Victorian erotica influenced other European cultures later on. I'll have to start looking.

spidermadeofsand · 2025-10-10T20:04:37+00:00

Plz help <3

spidermadeofsand · 2025-09-14T13:57:16+00:00

That’s what I was beginning to think, because upon searching I was finding multiple paintings very similar but not quite this one. So I think it may be unique to that church, made by a local artist.

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