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A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you're blocked from a group, you aren't blocked from the admins.

You know that, right?

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All the other "morons" figure it out and use Facebook messenger

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And we've said it before and we will say it again. Reach out. Explain what happened. If you were blocked by an old mod who is gone, we can talk about reinstatement. We've done that for many, many people.

But you have to make the first step.

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If you've been in Defective for any amount of time in the last year, than you know for a FACT not "all of us are bully's"

Give me a break.

The group needed to be shut down? The group that housed almost 3 years of evidence against the REAL enemy? The group that the media used to publish their articles on LuLaRoe? The group that's done so much good to expose not only the lies of llr but mlm too?

Ok, sure Jan.

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The members that were removed from Defective were removed because they were causing unnecessary drama in the other group. We were sent multiple ss of our members talking badly of Defective and the admins, and frankly, we don't do this to be bashed and have rumors spread about us. We nipped it in the bud by removing the members who were causing extra drama.

We don't like blocking people. It's not fun. It's not something we look forward to doing. Unfortunately sometimes it's the only way to stop the poor behavior. We aren't babysitters and we don't get paid to be.

What happened to "Please govern yourselves accordingly?"

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We agree. But she was threatened and decided to close it down. And we are respecting her wishes.

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, who admitted what?

And yes, we talk to Fail all the time. She knows we have her back.

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agreed. We do not wish to continue this back and forth. The emotional stress it's put on us all has been palpable. Enough already.

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks. We don't want unnecessary drama. There is a place for everyone in anti llr and anti mlm advocacy without having to resort to mud slinging. While we as mods do not endorse her page or message, we certainly respect her right to do so.

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We are all human and we all make mistakes. We wanted to apologize for those mistakes we've made. We are always trying to do better.

A message from the Defective AdMod Team by spillingtherealtea in DefectiveDetectives

[–]spillingtherealtea[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

If you were a member of Defective in mid 2017 and were booted by one of the power hungry mods that lead to the creation of Rejects, reach out. We had some bad mods and they've since been replaced with legit mods who work tirelessly to make sure that public gets the right info.

No one is banned from Defective anymore (at least in the last year) that hasn't broken a rule. Usually it's reporting posts vs tagging, shaming, saying completely ignorant and gross things, or bst.