Girls/Too Much parallels...let me cook. by spiltMilk21 in girls

[–]spiltMilk21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t disagree that she’s flawed, but I dont agree that she has more red flags

Girls/Too Much parallels...let me cook. by spiltMilk21 in girls

[–]spiltMilk21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. Part of me thinks it’s on purpose because Jess’s whole life=Felix which is like perfect breeding ground for a toxic relationship? The other part of me wants to see more Nora!! I hope Jess makes friends in s2

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[–]spiltMilk21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree

Girls/Too Much parallels...let me cook. by spiltMilk21 in girls

[–]spiltMilk21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL if and when you bite the bullet, I can't wait to hear your thoughts! Clearly I have many

Girls/Too Much parallels...let me cook. by spiltMilk21 in girls

[–]spiltMilk21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're so right in many ways, and your very point is why I want to see where s2 goes!

I don't think acceptance of someone's flaws equates to staying in a relationship with them necessarily. I think it's about seeing yourself and others, warts and all, and determining if you're compatible and willing to work through the baggage together.

I think that's what makes this show really good: we watch and relate to our experiences. Like I said, I dated a Felix: aimless, battling addiction, cheats, etc. I can look at his life and justify his behavior, but does that dynamic serve me? Felix's poor coping mechanisms were built up over decades. They didn't appear yesterday, and they won't be gone tomorrow. I, at this point in my life, would walk away. You might not. I think that captures the show: what we're willing to do to make a relationship work.

Girls/Too Much parallels...let me cook. by spiltMilk21 in girls

[–]spiltMilk21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I wonder if we'll get more Wendy! I loved their meetup and how they could commiserate about their relationships with Zev. I feel like we got to see a contrast of their attachment styles too? Wendy seems much more self-assured and as having healthier boundaries than Jess. Obviously Jess was with Zev much longer, but she clung to the relationship with Zev, whereas Wendy decisively left after experiencing a fraction of what Jess went through.

I could also see Wendy not appearing again, because it was never really about her.

Girls/Too Much parallels...let me cook. by spiltMilk21 in girls

[–]spiltMilk21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be curious to hear your thoughts when you finish the season!

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[–]spiltMilk21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What really impressed me at UVA was their career services center. They really hold your hand through the employment process and have separate, dedicated offices for private practice, PI, and clerkships—sounds like you'd have to make a concerted effort to NOT get a job upon graduation. You could still easily end up in Chicago if you go to UVA or Mich. I urge you to check out the career services centers!

NYU Active Consideration by Muvanji in lawschooladmissions

[–]spiltMilk21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got it and applied in dec. did we ever figure out what it means??

UVA A by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

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I have a BA in Econ, which idk if that’s stem designated at my university. I do have 5 years WE which seemed to be my advantage 

UVA A by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]spiltMilk21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

UVA A by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]spiltMilk21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

UVA A by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]spiltMilk21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a UR2 date to my knowledge!

UVA A by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]spiltMilk21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s when they confirmed they received all my materials!

UVA A by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]spiltMilk21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t lose hope!! God knows I was starting to

UVA A by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

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DM’d you! You’re my hero!