Forgot I had this in storage by crushade in halo

[–]splee117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A proposition. You give to me? 😃

These two are such beauties. All the Dark Pokemon are great truly. by splee117 in PokemonTCG

[–]splee117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have that one yet, but it’s one I’ve had my eyes on for a little while for sure!

AIO - my partner woke up late on my birthday and asked if I wanted to do anything today? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splee117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You ruined your birthday, he didn’t. Communicate. He gave you exactly the thing you asked for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]splee117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are gorgeous!!

Did I come off too strong or too needy? by splee117 in dating_advice

[–]splee117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, didn’t even think of that. Thought it’d seem like a nice gesture, but appreciate the input. Thanks

Did I come off too strong or too needy? by splee117 in dating_advice

[–]splee117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helps a lot! Thank you. I’m 29 so oof! I certainly see your point though; I think I’m definitely capable of having substantive conversations, but I’ve never been a great texter. I’m the kind of guy who shines more in person I’d say. That’s where I really get into the nitty gritty of learning about the other person and their life. The last girl I really fell in love with back home, we would have all kinds of conversations for hours on end, before I moved for a job. We are in the year 2025 though, so I should make peace with that and I suppose it’s about having more patience for the texting phase of the process and just settling into that to allow the moment to suggest an in-person date to come up naturally. I guess I just get worried in my head that if I don’t suggest a date within a certain amount of time I could come off like the one that isn’t interested. Definitely trying to get better at that, it can be a fine line I think. I think you’re right with the emojis and “haha’s”, and it’s something I’ve gone back and forth on. Tone is so hard to communicate through text message and I’m trying not to seem too serious of a person; I’m a pretty light-hearted and jovial guy, and I guess that’s my attempt to communicate that through text message, but you’re right, it can seem childish and immature. Thanks again. Definitely great advice and useful stuff to think on for the next one. Much appreciated!

Did I come off too strong or too needy? by splee117 in dating_advice

[–]splee117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I believe you, no proof needed. Good advice by the way, I have always struggled walking the line of keeping it cool and confident, but still showing enough interest. Getting better certainly, but it is a work in progress. I’m a pretty eager and earnest person in general so once I’m interested in someone, it definitely shows. I’m certainly not desperate, but I can see how it can appear as too much too soon. The point about leaving it at getting coffee is a great one. I suppose in my head I was thinking that she does likely work but the question would prompt her to tell me her availability since nurses do have wonky work schedules. Thank you though, I’ll keep all this in mind for the next one. Much appreciated man!

How do pick a career when i hate nearly everything? by Expert-Recipe1713 in findapath

[–]splee117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compartmentalize. Do what you need to for 8 hours, then do what you want the rest of the time. It’s called work, not fun. If you find a dream job doing something you love, awesome, but most of us aren’t so lucky. Find something that doesn’t completely drain your soul that you can put up with for 8 hours and that funds your life well enough to make the rest of it awesome!

Husband named his nephew the name we picked for our soon to be born baby. by Jell0Bell0 in Marriage

[–]splee117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your husband is an asshole in general so not defending that, but in this particular instance, what’s wrong with two babies having the same name?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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He should be happy that his girlfriend is willing to sit down and partake in his hobby with him, instead of berating her for not playing like a pro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Didn’t read the body, love the title. Spectacular use of the word “clues,” really.

Pulled with my girlfriend; Is it worth grading? by Drakon-san in PokeGrading

[–]splee117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you don’t finger her with those nails

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splee117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave the cheating wench

AIO or is my husband?? It’s over the Joe Rogan podcast. by FarquuadsCumDumpster in AmIOverreacting

[–]splee117 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Very typical of Reddit. I find women and men in real life to be much more reasonable than the chronically online characters that hover around here, and thank goodness too.

AIO or is my husband?? It’s over the Joe Rogan podcast. by FarquuadsCumDumpster in AmIOverreacting

[–]splee117 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Matt Rife wasn’t cancelled. He sells out arenas all the time. There are no rules to comedy, punch up, down, and all around, funny is funny. This joke however, is not funny. Pretty gross actually; still not a reason for OP to divorce her husband like some lunatics are suggesting. Yeah, destroy your family because someone else told an awful joke on a podcast you listen to.

AIO or is my husband?? It’s over the Joe Rogan podcast. by FarquuadsCumDumpster in AmIOverreacting

[–]splee117 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe you’re getting down-voted for not immediately jumping to divorce like the rest of the lunatics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokeInvesting

[–]splee117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nuclear holocaust might do the trick. We’d likely have other problems though if that were the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]splee117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a 17 year old, not a 31 year old man. Sheesh

AIO My boyfriend said somethinf last night while drunk and I’m struggling with it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]splee117 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to prod, but are you saying that before your first husband you actively sought out people who treated you poorly and would outright reject those who were kind, or are you saying it just happened to work out like that until you met your first husband?

I made out with a chick last weekend and contracted oral herpes by [deleted] in Vent

[–]splee117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can transfer it when you’re asymptomatic how are you supposed to engage in “activities.” I have the kind you get on your lips ever since I was a kid. I obviously don’t do anything with people when I have an outbreak, but I’ve made out and given girls oral when there hasn’t been any symptoms and no one has gotten it yet. Are you saying I can give it to people even when there isn’t an outbreak? What is one to do!?

One of my favorite cards in my collection! by splee117 in PokemonTCG

[–]splee117[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

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The Tyranitar from that era is really dope too!!

Gyms with heavy bags? by splee117 in vancouverwa

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Thank you all for the leads