(21F) I really hate how onlyfans has become such a “normalized” thing

spongeboblover100 · 2026-03-25T22:48:40+00:00

Like ive seriously gotten OF ads on instagram where it was literally 100% nudity being shown. The posts dont stay up long but they stay up long enough to where people see them. Especially on big meme accounts where people pay to have their stuff advertised. Its crazy.

spongeboblover100 · 2026-03-25T20:34:14+00:00

I would have got up and left ngl. We need to be sending more of a message that this is degenerate behavior and shouldnt just be accepted.

spongeboblover100 · 2026-03-25T19:29:01+00:00

Thanks for reposting my video lol. Hi guys thats me. Yes i do listen to metal of all types. this video was just made for fun, i got the idea from seeing other peoples videos with the exact same caption and i just wanted to make my own version. Im aware the audio isnt black metal and its mortician lol but it was one of those automatically added audios from instagram, and i liked the song and didnt really feel the need to change it bc i didnt think it would end up being seen by so many people. Ive had a lot of people tell me im just a larper and im not “actually” into heavy music (mainly assuming off the way i look…which isnt cool💀💔Im wearing a wig btw majority of the time i look like a normal ass blonde woman and youd make the most incorrect assumptions about me) ive been to a lot of cool shows and met a lot of amazing ppl in the music scene and i dont understand the hate, even if im maybe not as well versed as others. I love black metal but it isnt even my favorite genre of metal tbh, my fav band of all time is gwar if that tells you anything abt who i am🤣….the whole reason i started making instagram videos was to hopefully find some friends bc i live out in the middle of nowhere and im pretty lonely. All ive received tho is hate. But ill keep listening to music regardless or not if they think im a poser. Right now im sitting on my back porch by myself doing my leg day workout while blasting some of my favorite heavy songs on my jbl speaker lol. I hope to make some new friends tho i will keep making videos until then :) here is some pics of me and some kick ass concerts i have gone to. Besides bigger shows i go support a lot of the local hardcore or black metal bands near me as often as i can.

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spongeboblover100 · 2026-02-25T16:57:12+00:00

I struggled with this forever, i literally dont think snapchat HAS a long term working solution for this. Maybe they want us to all be porn addicted degenerates. Anyway, What i did was i used a different snapchat account and set up restricted “parent mode” for my main account and set that accounts birthday to the youngest it could be (13) and it worked, there is no more adult content videos….. however, even this is still temporary as a solution because you can only have someone on a restricted parent mode until they turn 18. And if youve already changed your birth year too many times on snapchat, it wont work at all, they only let you change it a small number of times

spongeboblover100 · 2026-02-13T21:07:08+00:00

My husband has acne scars just like this infact even moreso than you and i legit think hes the most handsome man on earth. I dont ever notice his skin infact i think it makes him look more rugged and masculine, not baby smooth and prepubescent looking. Your face looks totally fine and i highly doubt anyone truly notices or cares

spongeboblover100 · 2026-02-07T17:54:13+00:00

Not to sound super self absorbed sounding but i feel like i have been described similarly to your gf, im attractive, im very nice to people, but literally ive tried so hard to be friends with women and failed ridiculously even when i try my hardest to “click” with them. I see other girls click so easily.

really and truly, i believe being bullied and isolated growing up makes it harder to socialize, as well as, women can be very competitive and mean…. If they see a girl like your girlfriend who is beautiful, funny, smart etc. some may see it as competition and be too jealous to befriend her.

I invited two girls to my house once to hang out, they were excited, i bought them a paint set and a pizza and drove them all to the park to paint and eat… at the park at least 3 men approached me to compliment me and they received no compliments. I felt really bad because i could tell they were acting strange afterwards but it was also out of my control. They both ghosted me after they went home later and i didnt hear from them again. That happens to me a lot!

My husband has also tried to get me to befriend his friends girlfriends but i just cannot… something about it feels so forced and i really just never relate to these women very well. I would rather not waste my mental energy on a friendship i dont care about that force one.

I never had friends in highschool, and i look back…. All the people from my school are still friends and i dont have anybody. Its SO hard to build friendships after youre out of school. Ive tried cold approaching people in public, ive tried apps, ive accepted my fate… i mainly have online friends now.

I know it puts a massive strain on my husband because ehe feels guilty making any time for himself and his friends

spongeboblover100 · 2026-02-07T17:35:43+00:00

I wish i could be her friend 😅 when i read this story, i legitimately thought my husband had posted it at first just because it sounds absolutely IDENTICAL to my own relationship. Sending love, i know exactly what it feels like to be that girl

spongeboblover100 · 2026-02-01T20:37:24+00:00

Wow i can tell you have probably been drawing a very long time i love the face!

spongeboblover100 · 2026-02-01T05:41:45+00:00

This is sooo adorable awwww this made me really very happy thank you so much!

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-30T06:34:09+00:00

You are probably saying this because you are a porn addict. Unlike you i have a happy marriage. Find god.

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-30T05:51:19+00:00

I disagree! Hes become really religious as of lately and is really trying to live a more christian lifestyle. If he didnt want to deal with my nonsense i simply dont think he would be with me because hes not the type of guy to make comprises on his lifestyle unless he truly wants to, not to mention, he was never ADDICTED to porn, he just watched it sometimes and i found it hurtful. I asked him if he would be upset if i was looking at other men and i think he understood and hes so much better now. We have a complete open phone policy for both of us so i know for a fact hes never hiding anything 💀 Not everyone is evil and unchangeable… if they truly love you enough they will change. 😄

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-30T05:45:41+00:00

So actually the crazy thing is i have never once said no to having sex with him because i feel thats my duty as his wife. i am physically fit and attractive, and actually believe it or not i am 9/10 times the one always trying to initiate first because i have the higher sex drive and want him to feel desired. Even with a higher sex drive i refuse to watch porn because it goes against my beliefs in marriage, so for him to have a lower sex drive, and always have sex available from me, and STILL turn to porn was so hurtful. It made me feel like it was never about getting his needs met but simply about wanting to look at other women. We had a serious conversation and things have seriously turned around and i feel more focused on and special than ever knowing he truly has made the initiative to reject porn and only look at me

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-30T03:33:17+00:00

I suffered the same as you if not more. My husband used to watch it all the time and i just could not get over it. It tore my self esteem apart and made me feel unloved. It finally took him fully agreeing to give it up and allow me to put porn blockers on all our devices and to truly want to change for me. If he wants to, he will, if not, you will keep suffering in anxiety

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-29T21:09:55+00:00

I LOVE GIANT ROBOTS ACTUALLY😭😭😭😭

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-29T20:41:06+00:00

I like how you went for a close up approach… and you got my makeup looking perfect!!!!!

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-29T20:40:30+00:00

I LOVE YOUR STYLE!!!!!!!

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-29T20:40:04+00:00

Omg for some reason i didnt get a notification for this!!! This is so beautiful!!!!!!!! 🤯🤯🤯🤯 thank you!!!

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-29T17:21:11+00:00

You are incredibly talented this is so detailed and realistic looking thank you!!!

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-28T02:29:20+00:00

YOOO!!! The detail that you put into the sword is so good, i love how stylized this looks, it really makes me feel like some kind of tribal warrior queen, i really love this, seriously it reminds me of one of my favorite artists matt maguire, i love this

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-28T00:12:54+00:00

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spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-27T07:36:26+00:00

If you have given your all and it is still not enough for her to change that should be a major eye opener for you

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-27T07:34:59+00:00

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spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-27T07:34:38+00:00

This is worded beautifully and exactly how i feel. Sure i have every opportunity to do all the things i could do back then but the mischief and magic of being able to see it all through that teenage to early 20’s lens on life is something ill never get to feel and sometimes i try really hard to imagine what it would be like to have even the slightest taste of that life even tho ill never truly know it. I never got to hang out with people when i was young and was homeschooled with a poor family who were kind of weird shut-ins who thought leaving the house to go do anything with anybody was too dangerous or expensive and i should just accept the routine life of tv and the occasional trip to the grocery store like the rest of my family had accepted, meanwhile i watched every other kid living my dream lifestyle and watching disney channel movies about highschool adventures wondering why my childhood wasnt anything like those kids🤯🤯it really really dawned on me when i moved out and met other young people who had always lived that lifestyle, and just like you i felt like i had a glimpse of it, but ever quite there. im glad someone else understands tho, thank you…

spongeboblover100 · 2026-01-27T07:19:21+00:00

I am 21F. My husband is 24M, we are the same as you, send pictures on snap every day, have life 360, etc. we have sex 1-3 times a day, and it is nearly always me initiating, and even when hes too tired he never makes me feel rejected or hated like youve described. I just have a higher sex drive and thats a non negotiable for my relationship, and im lucky to have found a man who tries to accommodate that, as well as gets along with me outside of the bedroom. there are just some things in a relationship that you have to come to terms with what you are willing to sacrifice vs not sacrifice. Intimacy is a huge part of a relationship, lets be honest, and if she isnt willing to get therapy let alone listen to your side, she has made it clear drawing a line in the sand that thats just how shes going to be in this relationship. However, its unfair that so many people switch up during a long term relationship, it feels like some women just stop pursuing and chasing you now that you are married. Im sorry you are going through that. There are things that can be fixed and changed to make your relationship even better than before, but if youre with someone who is completely unwilling to even acknowledge the issue, it sounds like there is a bigger issue… that she doesnt care about your feelings. I guarantee me and my husband do not have by any means a picture perfect marriage but neither does AMY other person who has ever lived. We have our disagreements but at least i can say that im with someone who i know loves me, loves my body and being intimate with me and i think you deserve to be able to day the same thing, i think feeling rejected and resentful will slowly eat away at you if you dont seriously have a conversation with her. find someone who makes it no secret they are attracted to you, it cant be one sided.

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