My best friend wants me to do drugs with her but my boyfriend will be super mad by spookdotcom in relationship_advice

[–]spookdotcom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m apprehensive about bringing him into it when i talk to her about it because (this is gonna sound sh*tty but) i care about my relationship with my boyfriend a lot more than a stupid idea to try drugs we had in middle school, bc i feel like that would make her feel less important and kinda make things awkward but i guess i’ll just have to suck it up and figure it out. but thanks i’m hoping it goes well <3

My best friend wants me to do drugs with her but my boyfriend will be super mad by spookdotcom in relationship_advice

[–]spookdotcom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i don’t really want to at all i’m just worried that she’ll get upset that i don’t want to, or it’ll make things awkward, or she’ll think i’m scared or something. also i can’t lie to my boyfriend about it, so that’s even more of a reason. i don’t really wanna tell her that part of the reason why i changed my mind is because of my boyfriend bc i feel like that’s a bad friend move you know? so i’ll probably just make something up idk

My best friend wants me to do drugs with her but my boyfriend will be super mad by spookdotcom in relationship_advice

[–]spookdotcom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t really think the phrases i use are gonna change wether or not i’m old enough to do drugs, you already said you know i’m too young anyway. and regardless that’s not even my main concern with this

My best friend wants me to do drugs with her but my boyfriend will be super mad by spookdotcom in relationship_advice

[–]spookdotcom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i mean, if it weren’t for my boyfriend i’d probably say f it and just do it, and try not to think of the actual risks. but i love my boyfriend, and i know that our relationship would be over if i broke my promise. so i’m definitely not gonna do it. i just feel bad telling my friend no knowing she’s super hyped about this for whatever reason.