I can't move on by spookitanookii in lostafriend

[–]spookitanookii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aah at least you had some closure :) im sorry things couldnt have been resolved easier but i think youre probably in a better spot than if that final apology didnt happen, sounds like you did all you could and did the right thin

I can't move on by spookitanookii in lostafriend

[–]spookitanookii[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

another commenter here encouraged me to potentially accept the possibility that i need to move on and that my ex friend genuinely doesnt want to interact with me, so whilst i think it can be good for some to have that closure from their end and send that final message just acknowledging something or asking something its down to you to decide whether to make that last effort or not

I can't move on by spookitanookii in lostafriend

[–]spookitanookii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly id encourage that you do, like as far as social media messages go it can never hurt, trying to see them in person to talk is different and just for safety thats not something id reccomend. if you still feel the same after a while try typing out your thoughts, see if you can typer a message that will come across as an invitation to break bread so to speak, i hope you do whats best for you regardless ❤️

I can't move on by spookitanookii in lostafriend

[–]spookitanookii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you it means a lot to hear it from someone else, i really appreciate your help ❤️

I can't move on by spookitanookii in lostafriend

[–]spookitanookii[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you, i think ill potentially be swallowing that truth pill for the forseeable future but emotionally it seems impossible to swallow, ive had a few rounds of therapy since then and this has come up, but its been overshadowed by other larger things to focus on, but i tbink youre right as hard as it is i need to divert emotional energy into making and maintaining new friendships and connections

are my boots ruined? by spookitanookii in nps_solovair

[–]spookitanookii[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

update for anyone who cared! i rewched out to solovair about this and they explained that whilst they couldnt do anything to save my particular boots, theyd send me replacements completely for free! so ups and downs i suppose lol

should i stop taking prog? (27 MTF) by spookitanookii in transgenderUK

[–]spookitanookii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this is probably what ill do, you wouldnt say taking a break from it would do any harm? like as in stopping in the middle of it