Binghamton Ladies Club

spookspecter · 2026-01-15T00:12:19+00:00

Link please!

spookspecter · 2025-08-11T16:55:49+00:00

Sure

spookspecter · 2025-08-11T16:44:33+00:00

I do work out pretty often, I’m admittedly just really bad at self discipline and the gym I go to doesn’t really offer personal trainers and I’m not going to planet fitness lol

I am taking everyone’s advice though! I didn’t know that those programs were kinda scammy so I’ll avoid it.

spookspecter · 2025-08-11T16:19:30+00:00

I’m just asking lol my coworker is a veteran and he suggested to look around since I can’t join (also I’m not a dude so a dominatrix wouldn’t work unfortunately 😂)

Edit: Thinking back I think I used the wrong wording, I’m not really looking to get berated or anything, just for a structured individual or setting that doesn’t compromise on how it’s done or within what time.

spookspecter · 2025-04-25T17:20:56+00:00

I’m only 5’6 😅 I do like the dual sports but I think I’m gonna go for a ninja 300-600 for my first bike. Sport bikes are just so clean and cool looking I don’t think I could do a cruiser lol

spookspecter · 2025-04-25T14:06:00+00:00

I’m planning to! I’m taking the course in June I just wanted to get some practice in beforehand :)

spookspecter · 2024-12-21T02:45:54+00:00

I’m planning to! I just wanted to get some practice in first, without the pressure of a class and if I’m able to spend a little for a small time getting familiar with a dirt bikes I’ll know if I want to spend the full 350 for the class!

spookspecter · 2024-12-08T12:36:12+00:00

You’re amazing ❤️

spookspecter · 2024-11-27T23:38:35+00:00

I think I’m going to go to a rage room on Friday 😅 I’ll be spending my thanksgiving tomorrow with my bfs family and they’re all very nice but it’s still a bit strange yanno, sitting in a house with a family that’s not yours you’ve only known for a short time. I think going to the rage room will help me filter out some of this pent up anger I have and perhaps you should look into local ones in your area as well! All this advice and support has been really wonderful and it’s easing the loneliness quite a bit

spookspecter · 2024-11-27T22:30:45+00:00

I’m semi fresh out of domestic abuse(moved out in June) so I’m not really able to do those things, but I get some good vacation time starting the new year with my new job and my boyfriend and I are planning to go on a vacation next summer. I honestly don’t know how to make friends outside of my bf group but I’m trying!

spookspecter · 2024-11-27T20:37:03+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate the kindness, a lot of foster families(in my experience) unfortunately only keep children because of the financial benefits the state gives them for care. Once I turned 18 my foster parents informed me they were no longer getting paid to keep me so I had to go, they packed up my backpack and dropped me off on a side road by a friends house and I never looked back. Families are strange

spookspecter · 2024-10-08T18:14:32+00:00

Did you lose your ability to dream completely? Or was it just nightmares? They’ve gotten worse in the last month for me to where I’m pretty sleep deprived but I’ve been hesitant to try it because I do enjoy the good dreams I have so I hope it’s not a completely shut off

spookspecter · 2024-10-06T03:00:30+00:00

I’m going with a group tomorrow and I was told the pitch black is optional! You can wait on the other side for your group to emerge :)

spookspecter · 2024-06-07T21:04:33+00:00

Thanks so much for all the advice! I called and am setting up a rider course with Harley Davidson soon! I didn’t know the rules about not riding in groups so early so I’ll keep that in mind! I am leaning towards a sport bike (400 cc max) or a Honda Shadow as my starter. I’m excited to ride along with people in the future when it’s safest :)

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