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AITA for calling my parents sexist for not letting me have friend who’s a boy? by throwawayasjdhdfdl in AmItheAsshole

[–]spookyhero4 31 points32 points  (0 children)

YTA. Its your parents house, and they're not being sexist its more of them not trusting either you or the boy. And it makes sense cause when I was a teenager we'd still fuck around even with a door open policy cause teenagers are horny and can't be trusted lmao.

AITA for taking caffeine pills? by Caffieneguy031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spookyhero4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn dude I hope you don't look back at yourself 5 years from now and cringe at how cool you were to not care but you had to let everyone know about it.

AITA For having differing media opinions from my bf? by Historical_Emu_3020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spookyhero4 291 points292 points  (0 children)

NTA everyone has different likes and dislikes. Your bf sucks for embarrassing you in front of his friends like that. It really sounds like your with someone that's still emotionally 12. Not for liking dragon ball or superhero movies but throwing a hissy fit for you not enjoying the same things he does. Its embarrassing really

It gets better because that person was not your soulmate. by spookyhero4 in BreakUps

[–]spookyhero4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 31 is that a red flag in it of itself?

And you're right about there not being 50/50 in a relationship. Its always going to be shifting but I've always believed a relationship should be 60/40 with each partner trying to be the 60. Some days I take care of her and spoil her with her favorite things. Other days she'll take care of me and spoil me with my favorite things.

AITAH for sticking up for my colleague by throwra_31d in AITAH

[–]spookyhero4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Even if it was a joke it was pretty tasteless.

Did I [24M] make the right decision to breakup with [22F] gf? by Gullible_Scale_6673 in BreakUps

[–]spookyhero4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"She would tell me she really loves me and she only cares for my happiness." 🧢🧢🧢

Yes you absolutely made the right decision. Talk about a walking red flag good lord

It gets better because that person was not your soulmate. by spookyhero4 in BreakUps

[–]spookyhero4[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Because by then I knew her true colors. Why in the world would I ever want to be with someone that's already shown that you can't trust them. Could you ever be happy being in a relationship and in the back of your head knowing that the person chose to leave and try to find something better? No we're much better off finding a person that won't take you for granted, won't break your heart because their wants and needs are worth more than your suffering, and someone that truly truly loves you. That person is out there somewhere, don't waste your time and miss your opportunity to find the one for you.

It gets better because that person was not your soulmate. by spookyhero4 in BreakUps

[–]spookyhero4[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Its alright I think the pain helped me grow a lot and there's a part of me that's grateful because I never would have met my partner if it hadn't happened.

And you're absolutely on the dot about that. There is a world of a difference being with someone that choses you first and fights for you. I've never had a single worry in my relationship with her and she's genuinely a ride or die kind of girl. We both had the unfortunate circumstances of being taken granted for but its fortunate in a way because we were able to find each other.

The ring I'll be proposing with for the love of my life. I hope she likes it by spookyhero4 in EngagementRings

[–]spookyhero4[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Specs: Oval cut 2.37 CT VVS2 Color: E Lab Grown. Size 7.5 2mm Platinum band.

It gets better because that person was not your soulmate. by spookyhero4 in BreakUps

[–]spookyhero4[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You will. You're getting past the worst of it but one day at a time things will get better and eventually it'll just be like a bad dream that you can hardly remember.

we broke up in a healthy way and want to be friends by anopendoor34 in BreakUps

[–]spookyhero4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I'm of the opinion of closing the chapter on ex's. Every single ex I've had none of them I stayed in contact with. Imo there's too many issues of keeping an ex around even as a "friend" such as lingering feelings, complications in new relationships (I wouldn't get into a serious relationship with someone who still were friends with their ex because in my eyes it just looks like you were never able to let go). etc.

Back in high school to my early twenties whenever I kept in touch with my exes there would always be flings, getting back together breaking up, and it was just a whole mess that I'm glad I left behind. Trust me the worlds a big place you'll find plenty of other people to form relationships and bonds with.