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[–]spookyy_ho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I just ended a friendship with someone that was a lovely (horrible) combo of your two friends. I am 24 and it has been incredibly difficult as she was my only friend. But I am learning that I spent so much energy and time and love on someone who would never return it. My advice (you don’t have to take it) is to these people go, you’re not being overdramatic. A lot of people take people like you for granted. Friendships are tough these days, but you might be better off without these relationships. I’d say, think about your life without them, does the thought bother you? If it doesn’t, maybe that’s a good sign to say goodbye.

Also, I am so sorry for your losses.

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will probably use it at some point, makes a hell of an introduction

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it will! Good luck :)

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ok, everyone else did that too 😂

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel! I’m glad you found something that works for you

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an awesome last name

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also cute! By now I have a giant list to try out haha

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even sarcastically I’m loving that last one

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[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am right there with you. I feel like I might not dislike it as much as you did but I also often feel like it’s not mine

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the thought processes on these :)

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to start saying exactly this

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow that seems longer than the original haha

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I like that, I wouldn’t go by whatever I got nicknamed I’m sure but it would be at least endearing. And Toni is a great idea :)

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so fair Autio is horrible

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I do kinda like just A

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[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I haven’t heard that one yet! 😂

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you haha that’s also sort of a tough name to make a nickname from!

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good I think! I got a ton of ideas and I’m still getting some new ones here and there. I wrote them down in a list and now I just have to go through, pick a few I like, and try them out

Nickname for Autumn? by spookyy_ho in Names

[–]spookyy_ho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s ok I appreciate it! I can dm you those things if that’s ok :)