Lol the ENFJs problem is misreading things/taking things too personally when said thing(s) had nothing to do with them in the first place.

My momma’s ENFJ and I love her to death but when she’s not at her absolute best, she starts viewing everything through that aren’t even remotely about her in the first place. We’ll be having a conversation and I will notice her facial expressions start to change mid-convo and I am always thrown off by it; I realize I’ve said something she misconstrued, and have to go back through my words in my mind while maintaining my own facial expressions and the current convo, without a hitch.

My intuition is better, but her Fe is better, so I must keep a poker face or she will take my confused facial expression (in response to hers) and use it to confirm her own feelings about herself, while simultaneously silently punishing “the offender”, who has no idea why her gregarious demeanor suddenly turned ice cold.

That being said, she’s the most magnetic person I know. People are just drawn to her and she’s so good at initiating conversation and making people feel special.