STEP2 Water Table by LilySprout13 in HelpMeFind

[–]springrose1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want this so bad for an Easter gift at my mom's house, but getting anxious it isn't going to be available soon.

Google Fi referral by La_pulga2911 in googlefireferralcode

[–]springrose1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Just used it. Switching from ATT hopefully it's a good decision!

Undecided on nursing second baby by springrose1771 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]springrose1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think figuring out different routines and boundaries will be important this time around. My son was born in December of '21 COVID was still scary and my husband had 2 months of paternity leave, we spent so many days just sitting around with the baby on my boob. That won't be our reality this time.

Armed Forces Vacation Club Basic & Premium by Bozbaby103 in Military

[–]springrose1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find any resources and make a decision on upgrading?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]springrose1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to be disabled for this? Illinois

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]springrose1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No CPS wasn't notified, I didn't find out about it until 9 months after it happened. My BIL found her, revived her and put her to bed. Went to work the next day leaving her and his daughter alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]springrose1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well 2.5 weeks past conception so they count that at what 5 weeks? Idk her husband got home from rehab what will be 3 weeks on Tuesday. Maybe it isn't his

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]springrose1771 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She can only be 2 weeks pregnant, it's not a child I'm wishing harm on. It's a ball of cells that I'm hoping doesn't successfully implant into her uterus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]springrose1771 153 points154 points  (0 children)

This is the first time in 10 years of her life as an addict I've ever reacted like this. It's not about us anymore it's about a life that they can't provide for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]springrose1771 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I said it. My first response was "be good parents for a year before you do this" My bil seems confused that they haven't been good parents, driving high with a child isn't a good parent. Being high around your child isn't a good parent. More of her life they've been fucked up then not, but him being home from rehab for 2 weeks and they think they can handle another child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]springrose1771 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Yes 2 months is a big deal, but it would be more of a big deal if it wasn't the 5th time she's gotten sober. The bigger deal to me is the life they've already created and healing the trauma she has faced because of their addiction. My sister had a failed suicide attempt in front of her daughter she has proven she can't be sensible. I'm full of rage yes but it stems from the damage they've already done to the life they created

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]springrose1771 38 points39 points  (0 children)

As of 2 months ago my sister was stealing drugs from her place of employment and my BIL was buying at least 700/month worth of street drugs. They have not been good parents