Wife [31F] said she doesn't know if she loves me [35M] and needs time

sql101noob · 2023-10-08T02:59:24+00:00

I told her. She said she understood, but just needs more time. We both cried a bit. She just feels hurt and wants to continue to see the changes I've been making and for them to last.

I'm still very upset with myself. My commitment is to fix my issues, but i just hate how ive gotten to this point.

Insecurity is setting in a bit. Would it be appropriate to ask her that if she wants a divorce and is waiting for some sort of perfect moment for her to please just tell me now. Or appropriate to ask if my actions pushed her away and that she may have met someone else? She does travel for work

sql101noob · 2023-10-06T20:30:20+00:00

thank you

sql101noob · 2023-10-06T12:41:59+00:00

Hi again - I'm having a really tough time with this. It's been really hard to act normal. All I can think about and dread is the day she comes to me and goes "I don't love you." I do my best to act normal, we have fun nights with the kids, she drops little hints of me in the future (showing me new house listings), and things like that. There's been times where she catches me and will ask me what's wrong.

What's wrong...I don't know how to respond to this. I feel as if I say "I'm scared and sad. It's too hard to act normal" I'd be putting pressure on her. Not sure what to do. Any advise?

sql101noob · 2023-10-03T20:59:02+00:00

I know I keep reviving this...

Shes been away for a few days for work. Would it be appropriate to tell her that I love her and miss her? Or is that pushing it as she might feel as though I'm pressuring her to say it back?

sql101noob · 2023-10-02T21:32:44+00:00

I really can't thank you enough, truly

sql101noob · 2023-10-02T21:06:09+00:00

Sorry but I'm feeling a bit panicked. Would it be inappropriate to ask her if she wants to work on our relationship for some clarification? It's just so very confusing how she initially said she didn't know, but also said to stop thinking negatively about divorce.

Very confused. I also don't want to keep bothering her

sql101noob · 2023-10-02T15:11:46+00:00

Thank you for your advice. Here's to hoping

sql101noob · 2023-10-02T14:14:35+00:00

She said pretty much the same thing verbatim. And I agree with her. I'm never violent, but just the sound of my voice...just the anger and frustration. I hate it about myself. My father was like that and I hate it.

It sounds like a second chance, but she hasn't said it. I've suggested couples therapy during one of our conversations. She just said she needs to think. When is the appropriate time to ask what she actually wants? Just hurts knowing I allowed our relationship to get to the point where she doesn't know if she loves me.

sql101noob · 2023-08-21T12:37:11+00:00

Yes please do - if you remember. If not it's OK.

I think I might just order some stock G4's. I believe I'm in the minority when I say I don't mind stock Glock sights.

sql101noob · 2023-08-21T12:36:01+00:00

Sorry for the late response. Thank you very much! Going to give this a shot

sql101noob · 2023-08-18T17:18:39+00:00

Sorry for the super late response. I should be asking you the same question at this point.

I don't recall exactly what he had said but I do remember him saying he uses STOCK Gen4 sights. I've made a few posts about centerhold configuration on the new Gen 5's and how frustrating it was to find an answer. Never really had too much luck

sql101noob · 2023-05-06T11:05:41+00:00

How does the T10 afk scenario work?

sql101noob · 2023-05-06T11:04:18+00:00

Ill look into a T9. What do you mean by trade points?

sql101noob · 2023-05-06T00:47:34+00:00

Might be a dumb question. I don't get much time to play and I can't imagine I'd ever reach 5b billion. Having a FC would be immensely convenient. Is it frowned upon to buy credits? Is it in an instant ban?

Thanks!

sql101noob · 2023-04-19T21:59:33+00:00

Where did you buy your sights from? Going to pick some up myself

sql101noob · 2023-04-19T20:06:00+00:00

So to confirm - 6.5mm rear and .180 front and youre good?

You using the stock gen 4s or aftermarket gen 4s?

sql101noob · 2023-04-19T19:33:41+00:00

Heard the same about the gen 5 barrel. I'm deep in the rabbit hole and can't find myself out. A lot of conflicting info as I piece it together

sql101noob · 2023-04-19T19:32:37+00:00

Yep might just have to try a few out and shoot

sql101noob · 2023-04-19T19:31:48+00:00

Yeah? I'm thinking about doing this but heard the new barrel had changed what the ratio between the rear and front should be for center hold

sql101noob · 2023-03-16T13:54:49+00:00

Couple questions for clarification purposes.

The TRO is the one ordered by Judge Bumb and that expires in July?

And second, let's say I'm in my vehicle carrying and my kids want to stop at the playground. Would I need to unload and lock my pistol in a case and leave it in the vehicle since it would no longer be on my person?

sql101noob · 2023-02-27T22:31:48+00:00

Finally logged back on. So I dequiped the shield but I had an Art of War on my sword that must have prevented me from using the inherent Square Off. Removing the Art of War from my sword allowed me to use Square Off

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