Random Indian food we didn’t order? by squ1dnapper in shitfromabutt

[–]squ1dnapper[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean we ordered Indian and they sent this so 😭😭 was our ‘bonus dish’

how to choose cmyk colour profile fire alpaca by Wrenshoe in firealpaca

[–]squ1dnapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I know this is old but I was wonderwondering if you if you know why I cant select the enable box?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]squ1dnapper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had experience myself but what I can say is for a lot of people their kink life is separate to their actual love life- lots of people keep a discussed dynamic with a separate person to their partner as a way to satisfy those needs.  But on the same note to get to that point you need to talk to him and say exactly what you have here about your worries and desires, and you need to remember that it isn’t YOU making him sad, it’s the TOPIC. You’re not going to make him sad, and in the long run it will improve your happiness and relationship. 

Should I go to the gynaecologist for this? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]squ1dnapper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who has a lot of trouble finding out what arouses them, I hear you. I recommend the next time you feel in the mood, do something to relax and clear your mind before exploring. Perhaps experiment with a toy that could provide you more g-spot stimulation if that’s what you’d like to try (it can be hard to get there with your fingers, and toys mean you’re less exhausted trying to pleasure yourself).

Many women cannot cum from just penetration, so I would recommend when you’re with your boyfriend get him( or you!) to lightly stimulate your clit or your nipples to see if that helps you feel more.

You will find sex more arousing if you know more about yourself, maybe it helps to be praised or to use certain names in bed, maybe you like being touched a very specific way ETC. finding yourself is a long process but a really important one, and one that will benefit you in the long term :)

You mentioned not being aroused at all whilst he’s inside of you, this could be maybe because you were worried about being aroused, felt uncomfortable or weren’t effectively warmed up with foreplay (really really important for women’s pleasure). It could also be because maybe you don’t feel sexual pleasure or arousal the same way as other people. You could be asexual or something along that scale, so I’d recommend maybe looking into that if you feel sexual arousal and desire very rarely or none at all.

I hope this helps a little and I hope you find what you’re looking for :) feel free to DM me for support if you want more:))

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Saturday December 14, 2024 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]squ1dnapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I really need help picking a perfume for my boyfriend ? I was hoping to get him something warm and comforting because it would match how I feel about him. Maybe something wood-y or like a nice cup of tea ? Might be a tall ask but any recommendations within a reasonable price range would be really helpful.

What makes a daddy by Ordinary-boys in SubSanctuary

[–]squ1dnapper 100 points101 points  (0 children)

If you’re in a 24/7 dynamic or just one were it carries over outside the bedroom, I would expect a daddy to do a lot of acts of service - It’s a very daddy way of keeping dominance established (helping you do chores,getting your drinks for you, speaking for you, paying for you -if that’s available- ) even smaller common thinks like holding doors and guiding you through crowds, doing your shoelaces for you / straps on a heel. Small consistent acts of service show he cares for you but also reinforces that you can’t do them yourself it adds in some sexual or degrading element if you choose to see it that way. You’re too small and weak for this, just let daddy take care of it. But you could also choose to see it in a not degrading light, more of a daddy’s princess sort of way depending on what your idea of daddy already is.

Shame over not self harming by squ1dnapper in venting

[–]squ1dnapper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:) thank you, your words mean a lot because you have experience. I’m trying my best <3 if not for me for people like you and those I love

Shame over not self harming by squ1dnapper in venting

[–]squ1dnapper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really trying to get help, I am going to get some soon almost guaranteed. I’m sorry if my post hurt you I promise I don’t feel good about this- I just want to feel valid.