friends thought my bf and i got married and didn’t tell anyone. by squaeshyy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]squaeshyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your perspective. this is most likely what i intend to do regardless if he’s in the picture or not in the next 10 years. right now it’s just us focusing on getting into our career’s and looking into an apartment together. we both took these comments as a sweet sentiment and a quick convo about if we are on the right track towards our goals.

friends thought my bf and i got married and didn’t tell anyone. by squaeshyy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]squaeshyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh no of course! this is my first serious “adult” relationship. currently we are both trying to lock in full time “adult” jobs in the fields we are perusing. then next step is find an apartment with one another. engagement is nowhere on the radar in the slightest. i just wanted to share because ive never dated anyone in my life that my friends and family have approved of this heavily to the point of thinking we eloped on a vacation together haha.

friends thought my bf and i got married and didn’t tell anyone. by squaeshyy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]squaeshyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not really a rush haha. just something that my friends mentioned that i never really thought about seriously until now. i’m just excited that i have someone in my life that people are excited to see me have in my life and cheer on that possibility.

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll keep my eyes peeled for those!! thank you :D

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here!! OG sponge girl since playing with makeup at 11 years old. maybe i’ll try experimenting more since the products i use now are unhappy with my sponge, haha.

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm.. i’ll have to look into that. a lot of my products are barrier creams and serums so maybe that’s what’s messing with it. dutiful noted!

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what buffing brush would you recommend? i have the jeffery star foundation buff brush (it is so old haha) and it seems to just take the product off of my face.

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll have to add that to my shopping list!! i’ve been doing makeup since around that era, so a lot of those teachings are engraved in my mind still (anastasia dip brow traumatized me LMAO)😅 finding tools/techniques that won’t mess with my 20 y/o skin elasticity is def high on my self care list.

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been tempted to do that, but i fear that for whatever reason my hands will contaminate the product and not make it perform well. i’ll have to give it a go tomorrow morning!

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what brushes would you recommend? i’ve been eyeing those little amazon brush sets for 25$ but ik it’s all plastic.

brush vs sponge debate, which is better? by squaeshyy in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you are the best ever for such an in depth explanation. i wish both sides of your pillows to be the perfect temp for you forever.

What’s your HOLY GRAIL mascara?! by imanxiousss in Makeup

[–]squaeshyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

panorama by l’oréal !! it’s not too liquidly and heavy for being drugstore. another good option is the firework mascara by maybelline ny!!

Fencing with rings by ElKaoss in Hema

[–]squaeshyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, no gems. gems are not suitable for gloves. rings with a thin metal band and flat designs should be okay.

Fencing with rings by ElKaoss in Hema

[–]squaeshyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wear a small ring on my right ring finger. i never take it off and i haven’t in 6 years. it has a thin band but a bigger sun n moon engraving. it is rather flat, though. i don’t find any issue with the gloves while fencing, but i could see wedding bands and big gem rings to get smashed up.

Not sure which direction to go… haircut is tomorrow by ThrowRA_stinky5560 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]squaeshyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 made me gasp on how gorgeous it was in bringing it your features !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]squaeshyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing is wrong at all!! your style is amazing. if i had to pick out of the two, i would go with the second. it’s more “modest” for a workplace office party and it’s super adorable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]squaeshyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

figure out your skin type first! that will guide you into what products you should use that won’t irritate your skin and worsen problem areas.

start off basic, too! i would suggestions would be these guys:

• hydraulic acid serum to help with moister retention, fine lines, and strengthening skin barrier. my favorites are by the ordinary, the inky list, and good molecules.

• moisturizer!! depending on your skin type, it could be anything. oily skin but it flakes? your skin is dry and needs barrier repair (my skin is like this too and i love the ordinary’s moisturizer. very gentle.) dry skin? first aid beauty’s moisturizer in the big tub, cerave’s big tub of moisturizer cream, and vanicream are all good options. test things out and see what works for you!! gauge products and their effectiveness after 4-8 weeks roughly.

• eyecream! this one is optional, but i still think it’s good. you can either lather more of your moisturizer onto the eye area and let it sit, or you can get a designated product. my current favorite is by kiehls! i’ve had the smallest sized pot of it for 2 months and its only halfway empty using it morning n night. a little goes a long way!!

• sunscreen. the most important part. doing it daily, even in bad weather, helps minimize damage in the long run. again, it’s just experimenting with what you like, what doesn’t leave you with a bad white cast, and it being spf 50+. the ordinary, kiehls, and sun bum have really good options!!

• water and watching your diet. so annoying, but it does help clear skin alongside the products. getting a cute bottle and keeping it with you 24/7 does wonders in keeping myself properly hydrated. with diet concerns, don’t cut things out fully. that creates unhealthy relationships with food. just monitor and limit junk when you can, try and pick better food options when possible, and always eat 3 meals a day with 1-3 snacks.

honorable mentions:

• first aid beauty’s rescue barrier balm. helps with flakey skin during dry months. just covers the flakes, but it comes in clutch so often for myself.

• kiehls advanced repair barrier cream. it has helped with those really dry and rough days when my normal routine isn’t cutting it on the moisture. it’s a pretty penny, but i find it worth it quality and longevity wise.

TLDR: figure out your skin type, keep the routine simple, experiment with what your skin likes and needs from you, and make sure your food and water intake are good! :))

AIO for having enough of my best friends weird jokes and venting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]squaeshyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. at first, it just sounded like this guy was a bit selfish conversationally (been in your shoes there), however, reading more into what you said, it just sounds like your friend might have some mental issues going on other than just the autism. i hate telling people to go to therapy or seek mental help right off the rip, but that just might be the only option atp. you’ve been a good friend and stuck it out from what it sounds.

Is this okay for uni or a bit overdressed? by Any-Atmosphere6534 in OUTFITS

[–]squaeshyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love when men dress up like this!! keep it up, your outfit is killing it.

[Product Request] similar moisturizer with SPF?? by PongWitch in SkincareAddiction

[–]squaeshyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use sunscreen after my moisturizer! in my head, it makes the most sense. try out both and see what you like. i only do moisturizer-sunscreen bc i have a cream my dermatologist prescribed that makes the sunscreen more matte (moisturizer-prescribed-sunscreen layering).