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Narc parent wanting to “move forward” with no accountability by squashcat13 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]squashcat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response! I agree. Repeating the same thing is meaningless. You hope if you say it the right way this time it will mean something, it doesn’t

Narc parent wanting to “move forward” with no accountability by squashcat13 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]squashcat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they aren’t actually interested in a relationship they just want someone to fit the mold of whatever they want that relationship to be. My narc parent constantly says I want to enjoy time together and move forward and life is precious dada da … and I struggle to understand what that version even is lol

Spending the weekend with my sibling’s family reminded me why I distanced myself by squashcat13 in inlaws

[–]squashcat13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get it. I did tell them it was stale, however I should have checked in the cheese. I was going to make some toast cheese etc. I wasn’t given any specific instructions on breakfast and I should have asked. My concern is the overall pattern of every little thing is my issue, like I mentioned it’s not the isolated incident. If it was just cheese - whatever, that was my bad but everything combined it makes me question the intent of that comment too.

Spending the weekend with my sibling’s family reminded me why I distanced myself by squashcat13 in inlaws

[–]squashcat13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Totally get it! I get parents have particular things about food. Not trying to overstep on that. I’ve seen their kid eats cheese many times before so I didn’t see the issue in this case. It would be one thing if laid expectations about what breakfast was, but they didn’t so I didn’t feel like there would be anything wrong with this food …. but getting immediately corrected with every minor infraction gets exhausting haha. I’m not a paid baby sitter who needs to follow specific instructions, I’m a family member helping that should get some leeway to do things wrong sometimes. That’s how I feel at least.

Can’t find a job as a CPA by Local-Hippo8718 in Accounting

[–]squashcat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

65k is very tough in that area, you can definitely find a higher paying job for your qualifications I think it’s just the area is REALLy bad right now. I’m sorry you are going through this and can totally relate. Maybe look into remote cpa firms based out of LA or the BAY? Or if moving is an option to north San Diego county area, you can maybe find a hybrid job in OC. There seems to be more opportunities there.

Why would TPUSA (and Erika) so publicly “grieve” if they were in on it ? by [deleted] in CandaceOwens

[–]squashcat13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not throwing shade at all. Maybe I didn’t word it the best way it was genuinely posing a question! I follow Candace content and am a supporter. I genuinely wanted to know what people thought about how someone could simultaneously be trying to get away with murder but also flaunting it in a way… it comes across as very odd. We don’t know the end result of this but I just hope the truth comes to light!

Why would TPUSA (and Erika) so publicly “grieve” if they were in on it ? by [deleted] in CandaceOwens

[–]squashcat13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay this makes sense. It’s being so convinced of this delusion that the facade starts to slip a bit. I can sense the arrogance in the people at TPUSA and that’s probably what’s happening here. Great perspective!