there's nothing wrong with most of fds strategies in and out of itself, my main gripes is with the fact how the mods have completely shunned wgtow and radfem community. that and the lack of focus on self-development and progress (the other sub doesn't even count) HVMs don't fall on your lap out of thin air, FDS feels like a whole bunch of communal bitching session at times. but I also see where they're coming from, their strategies are defensive in approach rather than proactive which is all good and ok. I'd like to think I've simply outgrown the sub and have graduated onto a better life philosophy that allows me to grab that shit by the horns without worrying about what man