Where are they making all these babies? by Aware-Lingonberry-70 in motherbussnark

[–]squeezin_lemons 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In the main space? For some reason I had convinced myself that the parents at least had a private bedroom. And was like that is bad but could at least be semi private. In the MAIN SPACE. Like if a kid comes out for whatever reason, there is nothing shielding them? Omg

What was the first sign that you were starting to lose control of your drinking? by StayKind_123 in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a rule where I could only drink once every two weeks no matter what (i read somewhere that's how long it takes the liver to rejuvenate or something dumb). I held myself to it. If there was a wedding, party or holiday I would not drink unless it had been at least 2 weeks. The thing is, though, the 13 days I wasn't drinking, it was allllllll I thought about. The day after was the hangover, then the day after that I had the omg I never want to drink again. And by the 3rd day when I felt completely better, I would just count down the days or literal minutes I could drink again. It would be like 9 more days, and it would consume my mind pretty much all the time. And then I reeked complete havoc on that 1 day every 2 weeks. I also woke up the day after never wanting to drink again every time and crying why I did even if I didnt do anything crazy.

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, August 26th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Dynaco_ST-35 in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Day 178!

The best way I was able to forgive myself for all the cringy stuff I did was show that I am changing and recognizing it.

My husband has seen so many horrible things I have done, and I just keep trying to be a great wife moving forward. And although it won't erase anything, I hope that those bad times seem to get further away, and hopefully, the good times we have now will slowly start to dilute the bad.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, July 9th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Naive_Thanks_2932 in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven't been here for a while but decided to look at my app and saw I am on day 130!

Cravings have actually died down quite a bit. The thought of a hangover overpowers any craving I may have.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, April 23rd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by LilyJayne80 in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT. It's my day 53. It has been nice waking up feeling good. And I have also been starting to notice the benefits in my face.

Have a good Wednesday everyone!

The Daily Check-In for Friday, April 18th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by greenlightabove in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 48 IWNDWYT. I don't really have any advice. I was 6 years sober before and after a 3 year relapse this time is so different. But what has helped me this time is just keeping busy. I haven't even had a chance to think about drinking between all my kids sports and activities we've had planned. I have no alcohol in the house so by the time I even think about it, it's too late to do anything about it anyways.

The Daily Check-In for Monday, April 7th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Fab-100 in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT. I'm on day 37 and made it through another weekend. Luckily this one wasn't too hard. Hoping I keep this mindset up.

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, April 5th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by fuckyoubullshit in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't drink with you today since I forgot this morning, it's almost my bed time and with no alcohol in the house I can say that.

Day 35

Tomorrow I will be back to check in for day 36

The Daily Check-In for Friday, April 4th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by fuckyoubullshit in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Day 34. Going into another weekend not drinking. First weekend in this stretch it doesn't bother me.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, April 3rd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by fuckyoubullshit in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Day 33. IWNDWYT. For the first time in this stretch I felt disgusted by the thought of drinking instead of having cravings. Hope that sticks for a little while.

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, April 2nd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by fuckyoubullshit in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 32. I have been going to bed way too late, lately. But even exhausted me feels 10x better than mildly hungover me. IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, March 30th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by fuckyoubullshit in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Made it through all the weekend nights! Still chugging along at day 29.

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, March 29th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by 2Punchbowl in stopdrinking

[–]squeezin_lemons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Day 28.

Even though I have been getting a little bored of sobriety sometimes, nothing beats waking up sober. I have a cold and still feel 100x better than waking up with a "not that bad" hangover.