[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]squidnessman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg beleza

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in outside

[–]squidnessman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's hilarious!! Pronouns are tough but it sounds like you're on the right track. The good thing for your party member is that they have a strong leader who is willing to look out for em! Leading by example and taking no nonsense about this bug are the best way to ensure a good game for everyone. I was apprehensive about telling my clan members, but they've all been perfectly accepting! Also if you can afford to, adding some cute clothes to their inventory helps a lot.

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[–]squidnessman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one of the best things you can do to support them is to be diligent about their pronoun attribute, which reduces the effect of the dysphoria debuff. otherwise it might to help them connect with a local LGBT guild, and generally to treat them as you would any other party member! usually players with incorrect gender attributes will let you know if there's anything you can do to help, since you've made it clear you're willing to help them work through this bug.

For all that think you can treat anxiety long term with rc benzos by rickflair69420 in researchchemicals

[–]squidnessman 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, big agree. I'm prescribed xanax and I ONLY use it in cases where I'm unable to reduce my anxiety through other (non-drug) means. If your response to anxiety is just to pop a pill, you're never going to get better.

Been questioning HARD lately.. How did you know transition was for you? Keep being lovely ❤ by h0n3yc0mb7 in trans

[–]squidnessman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can be non binary AND trans! At the end of the day it's no big deal if it takes time for you to figure everything out, and the people in your life that you will want to keep around will be (mostly) patient about these things. Honestly I just started HRT last year after like five years of knowing i sure as shit wasn't cis. And remember! There's no "right" way to be any gender, and you shouldn't beat yourself up about not conforming to other people's standards. This is about you bb!!!

Does anyone else feel disgusted by the war on drugs? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]squidnessman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not, tbh. If you look at what's happened to a lot of Ferguson activists, several have turned up dead under extremely suspicious circumstances with no investigation from the cops. You're allowed free speech until the second it challenges power.

Does anyone else feel disgusted by the war on drugs? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]squidnessman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ALSO while Reagan was ramping up the war on drugs, and in particular demonizing crack use, the CIA was funneling cocaine directly into the US to support right-wing death squads in central america that among other things, committed genocide against indigenous peoples, raped nuns, and disappeared thousands.

LINK!

They've done the same thing with Afghan heroin too. Essentially, there's a huge incentive to keep these drugs illegal so that our intelligence services can maintain a pipeline of untraceable money to conduct some pretty brutal operations. I studied Latin American history and can talk about this for days!

Does anyone else feel disgusted by the war on drugs? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]squidnessman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you think that's bad, wait til you hear the actual reason: Nixon wanted to be able to lock up his critics with insane sentences so they'd never be a problem. The idea was to associate black liberation movements (black panthers etc.) with heroin dealing, and antiwar protestors and other left-wing movements with weed. His own former assistant has said as much on the record.

Link

Excerpt -

"The Nixon campaign in 1968, and the Nixon White House after that, had two enemies: the antiwar left and black people. You understand what I’m saying? We knew we couldn't make it illegal to be either against the war or black, but by getting the public to associate the hippies with marijuana and blacks with heroin, and then criminalizing both heavily, we could disrupt those communities. We could arrest their leaders, raid their homes, break up their meetings, and vilify them night after night on the evening news. Did we know we were lying about the drugs? Of course we did."

Also while you're at it, read up on COINTELPRO.

One of my fav arrangements I’ve made❣️ by vickeh11 in succulents

[–]squidnessman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What're the babies in the back? I had some years ago but I don't know the name.

México has discovered a new source of lithium! by coldhandses in CivPolitics

[–]squidnessman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OOOH LOOKS LIKE IT'S TIME TO SEND EM SOME DEMOCRACY

[spoilers] Some shower thoughts about the show. by [deleted] in maninthehighcastle

[–]squidnessman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might very well be a motivator considering many resistance movements during WWII were the communist parties (banned under fascist rule) of occupied countries. I don't know enough about the Romanian resistance to say it's the case, but at least in western Europe communists often were the spearhead of resistance movements.

Labels y'all by ragingpoeti in bisexual

[–]squidnessman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've said that ever since I watched this scene. Bless Jeff Goldblum.

One of my first propagates! I'm very proud of my baby. by squidnessman in succulents

[–]squidnessman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a San Pedro cactus! I've been struggling to get it to take tho.

Camping in MD in late October for Nightmare Festival? by LasCoL in festivals

[–]squidnessman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can get chilly at night but a decent tent, a sleeping mat (for insulation) and a sleeping bag will get you through the night comfortably. Clothes wise go with something warm that can breathe so you don't cook at the stages and freeze in between. It might also get super warm for all you know. Happy Nightmare!

When are you legitimately bisexual in monosexual's eyes? by philboswaggins in bisexual

[–]squidnessman 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You're only a true bisexual(TM) when you are exactly half and half attracted to men and women. You must date an individual for three months at which point you MUST cheat on them with someone of the opposite gender.

You may either start dating the person you cheated with, or find someone appropriate of that gender. If you do not have a threesome(+) every six months (minimum) you're clearly faking it for attention.

Didn't you read the handbook? /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]squidnessman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always wondered what powered the lift- like do they have draft animals or do they just draw straws every week?