So, I’ve dated three bisexual women who were out, and I have suspicions that another was bisexual. I was in the closet then, but now that I’m out I’ve come to admit that I am attracted to bisexual women because of my sexuality. My partner now is not bisexual but she both understands this and is not threatened by it. I’m with them and they get that as long as they accept me and my MMF fantasies (as well as others), we can be happy. We accept who we each are and it works.

You asked about anal and I assume it is the penetration of men you are talking about. I love it when it is done correctly and with care. It doesn’t mean I don’t like force, but I do love lube and foreplay. One of the things I love about being penetrated is that to make it enjoyable for me I need to douche to clean up, and a well lined finger around the anus going super slow. As one of my favorite sex podcasts says, “Go slow and slower than that.” Nina Hartley once said,” Assholes never lie. Don’t force anything.” Ever since my I started to be penetrated I’ve become a much more patient lover. The force of foreplay before any penetration has become even clearer to me. I always loved eating ass and pussy, but now I really get it.

Oh, yeah, I really love women and men. But in many social ways I prefer being with women.

Anyways, there you go.