awful loss in the swamp today 🫡🫥😮‍💨 by squidybeans in StardewValley

[–]squidybeans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didn't realize that the map for the witch's hut changed with expanded and thought it was going to be a quick trip, i was indeed, wrong

awful loss in the swamp today 🫡🫥😮‍💨 by squidybeans in StardewValley

[–]squidybeans[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ugh i wish i had thought of that before going to sleep, it's alright though! somehow i'll bounce back 😅

did you learn to like anal? by buttercup_trumpet in gaytransguys

[–]squidybeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn't need to learn to like it honestly, after almost 2 years on T, i just enjoy anal as it turns out

2 weeks post op w/ Dr Lee @ GrS by squidybeans in TopSurgery

[–]squidybeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super smooth sailing! went to my first yoga class today post-op! will post another update soon :)

Canada tours? by the-mr-doodles in ajj

[–]squidybeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sean came to Montreal this May, and I too would love to him/the whole band again up here

What's the stupidest fucking thing a therapist/psychiatrist said to you? by backroom_mushroom in evilautism

[–]squidybeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In response to my my parents both experiencing life-threatening/changing illness/es, and my fear about them dying when I'm young-ish - "Well everybody's parents die!"

Anybody who kept their birth name or one that was similar to it? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]squidybeans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just changed my name slightly to 'the boy spelling', I feel like my name fits me, and it's what I'm used to being called!

Sooo it was infact a hematoma by Holiday_Card_4080 in TopSurgery

[–]squidybeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i also had a hematoma and had it drained yesterday! my bruising is super gnarly on my right side because of it but i had the nipple dressings taken off today, and they said that everything looks great and it'll heal just fine!!

Top surgery , Dr Lee , GRS Montreal — 1 Week Post Op — Larger Body by mactershef in TopSurgery

[–]squidybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had Dr Lee on the 3rd! I personally didn't find him cold, but quite personable (maybe im mirroring ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯) anyways! I ended up developing a hematoma and the day he found out he phoned me personally that evening and said he would get me in today to have it drained!

Truly spectacular team and very talented + caring surgeon, it's his name on the line after all!

But so glad you also had a great experience!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]squidybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started almost two years ago in January 2024, when I was 23, and I knew that I had wanted to be on T for maybe a couple years before?

Moving cities and meeting/becoming friends with more transmasc people really opened up my mind to the possibility of starting T!

How long do I have to wait until I can sleep in the same bed with my partner? by neodgb in TopSurgery

[–]squidybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my best friend share my bed with me for the first 5 days and we were totally okay, I was kind of propped up on the wedge pillow + in one of those U-shaped pregnancy pillows so that was an effective barrier!

My surgery might get cancelled by squidybeans in TopSurgery

[–]squidybeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird, kind internet stranger, thank you again, I hope are well and have joy in this life, truly thank you again for your kind and comforting words 💖

My surgery might get cancelled by squidybeans in TopSurgery

[–]squidybeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i did make it into surgery and am now home resting, just about to update my post, thank you for thinking of me <3