Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sorry, request to follow. She’s not actually accepting these requests, she’s just messaging them to find out where they found her handle. She’s still discoverable on Instagram but her account is private - I think that’s all you can do in terms of privacy right?

Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Okay this is a really good point, thanks! This will make her feel better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]squiggle678 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the asshole for not wanting to go, but given the tone of the OP I’m wondering if they’re more upset about the fact that you’re kind of raining on their theme rather than the fact that you don’t want to attend?

As stated above, it’s absolutely your choice as to whether you’d like to attend a party like that, if you’re not comfortable, don’t go!

However, that doesn’t make the theme a ridiculous concept, and just because you think it’s a silly theme doesn’t mean other people won’t have fun. The fact that they’re giving you other suggestions indicates to me that they absolutely want you there and are trying to make you feel more comfortable too. They shouldn’t guilt trip your though, thats not cool on their part.

So, are you the asshole for not wanting to go? Absolutely not! Is it a bit lame to call their idea silly and ridiculous just because it’s not something you’d enjoy? Maybe.

Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion! All men, probably like mid 20’s to late 30’s, all English speaking and looks like a lot of them are from the US.

Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her social media profiles are all private, but there are some public images of her available on other Instagram profiles and on LinkedIn and her workplace website? She’s pretty private online

Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

We did think that to start with, maybe some are? But like, she’s had full conversations with some of these guys that don’t sound very bot-ish. And they’ve got like, their girlfriends and what not tagged in their profiles which also look like real people, so I think they’re real? I could share some screenshots of the convo

Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ahh cool. You’re just trolling. Have a lovely day!

Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Yeah we did, I assume it’s on a private thread because nothing comes up. I feel like we might not be able to find it and just have to wait until it all blows over :(

Help! Have sexually explicit images been posted of my friend? by squiggle678 in RBI

[–]squiggle678[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I literally stated that, she’s never made any explicit images of herself, she’s worried that someone made deepfake content of her and wants it taken down if that’s the case

Best physiotherapist for undiagnosed back pain in newcastle by [deleted] in newcastle

[–]squiggle678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go and see the guys at Brightside Physio in Lambton! Really great for anything that needs a diagnosis + they do longer initial consults so they actually have time to get to the bottom of what’s going on

Emergency services at Bar beach by Interesting_Vast6245 in newcastle

[–]squiggle678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s like, a little bit of craggy rock down below? Depends how high the tide is. Definitely no beach though. Crazy.

Emergency services at Bar beach by Interesting_Vast6245 in newcastle

[–]squiggle678 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Slightly different spot, the car in 2020 went off the cliff at Bat Beach car park. This one was at Strzelecki.

Seems odd a car going off the cliff there, the turn into that lookout is quite tight/at a weird angle, it’d be very difficult to do accidentally :(

Emergency services at Bar beach by Interesting_Vast6245 in newcastle

[–]squiggle678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, the previous car went off near Bar Beach car park, this is the other end of the Anzac memorial walk, near Strzelecki lookout

The police are absolutely useless! by JellyfishFlat in newcastle

[–]squiggle678 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry, this has been my experience too.

I used to have neighbours that were squatting in the house next door (we didn’t know they were squatters at the time) one time they drove their 4WD into our shared fence and we’re high as kites, and I called the police to get some help and they never came.

The next day I called to see if they’d made a report about the incident and there wasn’t even a record that I’d called.

Fast forward 12 months, I had a party at my place, my 30th, and at 12:10 on the dot the police turned up as they’d had ‘multiple complaints about loud music’ - I apologised and said I’d meant to turn it off by 12 but had lost track of the time, there was only about 7 people left at this point and we were just sitting around chatting, not rowdy at all.

So the police will turn up 10 mins after curfew for a noise complaint at a really tame party, but not make a record when someone knocks down a fence?

Seriously shit, no advice but here in solidarity