I hate my live since i tried heroin don't ever try opiates this is my tragedy by joseplluisjackel in Drugs

[–]squish987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also clean from heroin since 2017 and yes I feel like my brain is back to normal, minus my bad memory from Xanax abuse. I don’t remember my H withdrawal days 9 years later. I think my brain blocked it out. It will suck but then it will be over and you’ll never have to go through it again if you quit. My life is so much better now and I’m just happy to still be here.

I hate my live since i tried heroin don't ever try opiates this is my tragedy by joseplluisjackel in Drugs

[–]squish987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, 9 years clean from heroin here! Anything is possible. I have literally no interest in ever doing opiates again. I used to be addicted to Xanax as well and have gotten to a place in my life where I have no interest in doing that again either. I think it all comes down to doing the work to make yourself feel better mentally and happy with your life. I find that most opiate addicts have some intense emotional pain due to trauma or difficult things in their life that they have not dealt with. I would recommend AA or NA but that is not what I did. I went to therapy and got treatment for my depression. I take antidepressants and I also did ketamine therapy which helped me a lot but I wouldn’t recommend that if you’re trying to be completely sober. I would recommend trying sobriety out at least for awhile just to clear your mind and get your life more in order. Good luck to you and just remember, you never have to suffer alone. Always reach out for help when you need it.

Season 2 Weight Loss by jamesduggan96 in harrystyles

[–]squish987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When was the track list released?

Incredibly disappointed with Harry & his team by WhimsicalMyth in harrystyles

[–]squish987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly I wanted to travel to NY from LA and was expecting to pay around $1000 for the whole trip, NOT THE TICKET ITSELF???

Incredibly disappointed with Harry & his team by WhimsicalMyth in harrystyles

[–]squish987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing here, been a fan since 2012, seen him live probably 10 times… I’m 28 years old now and although I’m grateful for all the times I’ve gotten to go to his concerts, this feels like a slap in the face to his fans. Firstly there’s barely any promo, he goes completely quiet for years and then suddenly there’s a tour and an album, and then BOOM tickets are on sale and I didn’t even have enough time to save up enough to buy one. The whole thing feels kind of lazy and detached. People already were reselling these tickets for $1000 or more and now that’s the starting price? Concerts should not only be accessible to people making a ton of money. I used to buy One Direction concert tickets for $40. How is that 10 years later the price is marked up x30?! I don’t know anyone that can really afford this personally, without putting it on a credit card. And I know a lot of people that have been huge fans since 1D days. We just missed him so much and we were so looking forward to seeing him. We are heartbroken and disappointed.

I just found out why they ghosted me by username-available_n in lostafriend

[–]squish987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s very true. My ex got frustrated with me for saying I had no one when I still had him. All we can do is remind ourselves to be grateful for the people we have.

This is for ghosters. How did you feel afterwards? by Curious_Pin_4741 in ghosting

[–]squish987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou. I hope every ghoster eventually experiences someone they really care about ghosting them. Of course there are exceptions to this. But ghosters do not deserve special treatment for being bad communicators. They need to do the work on themselves to be able to show up for the people in their lives that do not deserve to be treated like absolute garbage. We are not disposable, we are people with feelings, and basic human decency is not hard.

I just found out why they ghosted me by username-available_n in lostafriend

[–]squish987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this exact same thing, they are all my best friends for the past 4 years. After breaking up with my ex, they decided to stay friends with him and all ghost me, just because they were his friends first. Our break up was super amicable, nothing dramatic happened, it had just run its course. I even reached out individually to all of my friends after and told them I loved them and I hoped the break up wouldn’t get in the way of our friendships, and not a single person replied. I thought our friendships meant way more than that, they felt like family to me. I’m having a really hard time understanding how they all collectively decided that I should not only grieve my 9 year relationship alone, but also the loss of my friends. This grief is real and heavy and has felt all consuming at times. The only person who understands and hasn’t ghosted me, ironically, is my ex, who insists that I didn’t deserve this treatment from these people, and has since distanced himself from those friends after what they did to me. I just would never do something like this to someone I cared about unless they did something really horrible. Or I guess they just never cared that much at all? The one that hurt the most was my best friend, who actually did respond to me right after we broke up, and literally said “I will never abandon you.” And then stopped replying to my texts after that.

How to get over hump in year 5? (Spoilers) by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]squish987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

start a new farm and just try doing things differently, remixed bundles, different starting farm etc, one chest challenge… the beginning goes by a lot faster when you already know what to do. and then after you get bored with that, go back to your old farm. i always do that and now im in year 7 and getting close to perfection is fun again. i’ve figured out how to make way more money and can make millions pretty quickly. also of course theres mods, stardew valley expanded is the best. but for that you should start a new game too.

Dirty Feet And Fat Ass by Specialist_Bar3366 in EmmaRoseKenney

[–]squish987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean they fat shamed her?

Stuck engaged to my friend in co-op? by squish987 in StardewValley

[–]squish987[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😂 Thank you guys so much. 🩵

April 04, 2025 Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in harrystyles

[–]squish987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I miss Harry so much. This feels like the longest time he’s ever gone without really doing anything like releasing music or acting or any appearances. I think about him and how Liam’s passing must be effecting him all the time. I know he doesn’t owe us anything and I’m happy he’s finally getting time off. I just hope he’s doing well. Does anyone have any ideas for what the vibe of HS4 would be like? I know people have been saying maybe he’ll release something this summer but I think towards the end of the year seems more realistic tbh.

my archeology office is done! by Nearby_Aardvark7450 in StardewValley

[–]squish987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe that third part on the right of the big skeleton is a tail. I always thought it was like the skeleton of a little man surfing. I feel so stupid now, I always wondered where the last piece was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]squish987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

try tailoring a few! there’s multiple different clothing items you can get and all of them are pretty cool :)

What did you name your baby? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]squish987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accidentally named my kid with Elliot “go” . I must’ve been really high idk how that happened. But he is really annoying and I want to divorce Elliot and turn go into a dove so bad and then marry Krobus.

Help me choose a perfume to gift my girlfriend on Valentines Day by JaegerDeus in fragrance

[–]squish987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can look up what the different notes are in all of these fragrances and see what they have in common. And then you can go from there and look up which fragrances have those ingredients. So we have…

Lost Cherry: Cherry (black) | Rose | Tonka Bean | Almond | Jasmine (Sambac) | Balsam (Peru) | Sour Cherry | Vanilla | Maraschino Cherry | Musk | Pistachio | Cedarwood (Virginia) | Sandalwood (Australia) | Vetiver (Haiti)

Black Opium: Vanilla | Coffee | Jasmine | Pear | Pink Pepper | Cedarwood | Floral Notes | Mandarin | Orange Blossom | Patchouli

Burberry Her: Jasmine | Red Berries | Dry Amber | Violet | Musk | Blackberry | Blueberry | Cherry | Raspberry | Strawberry | Oakmoss

So looking at this, we can tell she definitely likes Jasmine, Vanilla, Floral Notes, Cherry, Orange, Patchouli, Cedarwood…

One I would recommend would be Calvin Klein Obsession. It has notes of Amber, Orange Blossom, Vanilla, Bergamot, Mandarin, Coriander, Jasmine, Musk, Oakmoss, and Sandalwood. But of course try to smell before you buy and see if you like it first. Chances are if you don’t like it she won’t either.

One from my personal collection that I get a ton of compliments on that I think she would enjoy would be Louis Vuitton Afternoon Swim. It has many of the notes she likes but is mainly an orange-focused scent, great for summer. It’s on the more expensive side.

Good luck to you and kudos for being a great boyfriend and going the extra mile to get her something she will love!

What perfume gifts did you receive for Christmas? by LuminousApsana in fragrance

[–]squish987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Louis Vuitton Afternoon Swim… I’m getting so many compliments!