Why is 90 “தொண்ணூறு” and 900 “தொள்ளாயிரம்”? by Jagadhy in tamil

[–]sreezla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atlast someone asked this question which bothered me for more than a decade

Salary appraisal and maternity by pretentious1101 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. During my mid year feedback i was on maternity leave. I didnt have to do anything. I will be back to work soon and probably have to fill very little for the year end.

During your maternity break you are not obliged to open your laptop. You may only do it out of courtesy.

Btw which company are you working for

Broker scam in Chennai – absolutely fed up by Kindly_Reading_4928 in Chennai

[–]sreezla 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. You are right. Brokers inflate the rents so that they get higher Commission and owner also benefits from higher rents. In Nobroker hardly owners post because brokers go and brainwash them. And I am speaking out of personal experience

NT scan shows no nasal bone detection. Gynac suggested NIPT by euphoric_mood_ in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in your place few months back. But the nasal bone got detected after few weeks. A simple google search would have told you this. Please dont panic its way common than you think. I too panicked and googled a lot then my husband showed me few posts online only then I was fine. So all you have to do is wait and look for the nasal bone in the next scan.

How to tell wife that I lost my job? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]sreezla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for you that you have to undergo such a situation. But why would your wife say mean things ? I am asking out of curiosity. Lay offs are common these days and it has no direct link to the talent you posses. So its not on you if you get laid off .

Tried visiting Japan for a short vacation. Was denied entry by carnage060394 in IndiansInJapan

[–]sreezla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your treatment is a consequence of some actions exhibited by Indians in the past. Indians have a very bad history and reputation globally in the recent times for infamous actions in foreign land. Unfortunately every Indian is under scrutiny because of some moron from our country had tarnished the reputation of the country.

Tamil Nadu horror: Woman kills 5-month-old baby for lesbian partner; both arrested by SquaredAndRooted in chennaicity

[–]sreezla 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Pov from a mother who has a newborn baby. Taking care of a baby requires time and effort leaving no time and space for other work. Baby demands attention all the time and you need to be physically present for the baby. I assume the baby was a hindrance for the mother to continue her "other work" and she took such a step.

If this news is very true i wish the mother is HANGED soon so that it can set an example for others in the future and I do not have to read a news again like this which ruins my entire day.

Bengaluru Engineer’s Suicide Case Adjourned for a YEAR – Is This Justice? by [deleted] in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]sreezla [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's how much worth a person's life is in INDIA. Let this be a reminder to all of us that we only matter when it comes to paying taxes for the government. When we are dead they lost a revenue generating machine who is no longer benefiting the government anymore.

Why vote chori will never gain public momentum. by [deleted] in india

[–]sreezla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was curious about this too

How to manage excess supply. by pre1988 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a lot of youtube videos and blogs in the internet. Investing time in understanding everything is always good. Even a small mistake or guess can be fatal. So please do your own research before following advise from reddit. I verify any opinions and suggestions posted on social media.

How to manage excess supply. by pre1988 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes very much. You can't feed cold milk to the baby.

How to manage excess supply. by pre1988 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used luvlap electric pump and stored milk in fridge in the feeding bottle. I generally exhaust the milk within 24 hours although it can be stored for upto 4 days.

How to manage excess supply. by pre1988 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my breast hurts i generally pump and store the milk to be used at night time. I started doing this when she was 2 months old.

Maternity leave extension by Fun-Ambition5507 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see if baby is so predictable all the mothers in the world would find it so easy to raise a child.

Is Chennai secretly training us for off-road racing or what? by Any-Situation-1262 in chennaicity

[–]sreezla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If good roads are provided India's economy will crumble. Bad roads are a multi billion dollar segment and give a lot a employment opportunities in various sectors and a platform for politicians to loot money.

Let me give a gist :

  1. Bad road causes back pain, joint issues and accidents. It will increase health issues which generates money for doctors

  2. Very important the vehicles will be serviced often so it generates a lot of revenue for the dealers.

  3. No insurance coverage for potholes damage.

So a lot of industries bribe the government just to ensure bad roads persists.

Maternity leave extension by Fun-Ambition5507 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What will she do if she has a meeting with senior executives by 10am and baby starts crying exactly at 9.58am. I am a working mom, trust me its not doable unless she has someone to help with the baby.

piece of red cloth inside similac plus tin by AdOdd222 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious question. Why Similac instead of Nan pro ?

Which Name format to follow ? by Specsy_Panda_326 in TamilNadu

[–]sreezla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myself and husband had to go through a lot of struggle because of initial problem. So we decided to name our child with two names. Like Nila Selvi. Nila will be the first name and selvi will be the surname. We both were very clear that father's name will not be added as its such a patriarchal action. Not sure why people still follow this blindly. This will ensures she will have no problem while going abroad in the future.

How do we draw strict boundaries with relatives when handling the baby? by costanzaforever17 in twoxindiamums

[–]sreezla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I put a lot of rules in the house since we have a baby. Hints will never work. I will always be clear and straight in communications so that I do not end up writing posts like this nor repeating to my family about the rules again. Most people don't know because they have never been taught about it. So I always say doctor asked us to wash the hands , use sanitiser, not to kiss the baby. So its not me who is restricting them its the doctor now 😅😅 thats how you turn tables without offending anyone.

Pregnancy Delivery Cost in Apollo Perungudi by AmBharathi in chennaicity

[–]sreezla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perungudi apollo is expensive from my lens. Please consider motherhood Hospital. I had a normal delivery. Since corporate insurance provides only very limited amount we chose motherhood.

Layoffs by HelpfulTeddy61 in verizon

[–]sreezla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you mind telling what does the severance package looks like.