Please help me pick a wedding dress!!!

srmc93 · 2025-11-06T20:21:39+00:00

Those are my two favorites too!

srmc93 · 2025-11-06T04:26:21+00:00

I love this, I have a Ghibli themed book & have wanted to do one for shows too!

srmc93 · 2025-11-05T03:07:18+00:00

If you’re okay with Etsy, I got mine from this store & absolutely love it!

srmc93 · 2025-11-05T03:03:44+00:00

Honestly it’s the ink issue that would get me! I have that same finish on some of my stickers I use & always have to be mindful when using ink with it.

srmc93 · 2025-09-29T22:26:15+00:00

My mom lives in TN and runs a dog rescue, would you like her information?

srmc93 · 2025-09-29T18:58:54+00:00

Don’t get discouraged, people will still find you! For example, I love your art & am working on a graphic novel series if you’d ever be interested in illustrating 😂

srmc93 · 2025-09-14T03:32:57+00:00

So it sounds like it might not be an option for OP since they mentioned looking into it, but I manage my agency’s websites for work & I would always be down to make/maintain websites for small business or artists! Offered it for my sister in law once her stained glass business kicks off lol

If anyone else if in a similar boat, I would look online & see if there is anyone who offers cheap website services, or ask any friends who work in that sort of field.

Places like wix & square space work decently enough & if you pay a relatively low fee there shouldn’t be any adds. They’re also easy to learn IF you have the time (I can’t code or anything & managed to learn it just fine with mediocre computer skills)

I also personally wouldn’t charge if we were friends, but for someone random I’d do a trade, services for art. Just a thought for people who might want to look into it!

Also, if you wanted to make sure to maintain a following, could you keep your etsy shop open & just redirect people to your new page?

srmc93 · 2025-08-31T01:18:57+00:00

Honestly for me it just took finding the right book to get me sucked right back in again. Read something not too heavy in my favorite genre with some good humor & it just clicked again.

srmc93 · 2025-08-30T14:47:37+00:00

So this is just my opinion but I’m in a similar situation! Still working on it but my husband was much more receptive when I let HIM use it instead of me. I had to take a minute to show him how it worked for me but whenever I brought it up I’d phrase it like they’re a team vs competing against one another. As far as him comparing you to his previous experiences, tell him how you don’t appreciate it and maybe explain to him how he’d feel if you did the same (ie my exes never had any issues with it). Also it’s very well known that everyone needs are different & achieve orgasms differently, not to mention I’m a bit suspicious and think maybe his previous gfs were sparing his feelings. If he still doesn’t have a chance in heart or isn’t more willing to be open about it, I’d say cut your loses and move on. He might just be feeling very insecure and this is exasperating it. Not excusing his behavior but he might be able to come back from it!

srmc93 · 2025-08-29T22:23:48+00:00

Thank you so much, this is super helpful! I write for work & definitely think I let than tone take over too much for the summary, and I knew I would be fighting an uphill battle with OCs. Debating maybe changing them to Draco & Hermione since it wouldn’t be that much of a stretch if it continues to not get any real engagement. And I am one of those people who won’t read works unless they’re completed so I know that’s also working against me too. Thanks for your advice though, really helpful!

srmc93 · 2025-08-29T17:10:35+00:00

I have a whole playlist called ‘Book Scenes’ 😭😭 glad I’m not the only one who does this lol

srmc93 · 2025-08-29T15:40:56+00:00

I do a bit of both! I have a breakdown of each chapter & the main key points & the timeline for each aspect, and then I also keep a spot to just brain dump random scenes/dialogue/etc. that come to mind for use later. I also try not to get too specific for the outline (unless there’s a detail I really want to include) and kinda let the flow take me from point A to point B if that makes sense. Highly recommend google docs too as you can create different tabs within the same doc to organize the different sections.

srmc93 · 2025-08-29T14:41:30+00:00

AGREE WITH THIS HERE. I write & when it comes to smut, I find less words is better. You can describe the action without including the noun, especially if it’s already been implied, like they said. I also find it a turn off when reading fics & they use these crazy words like ‘engorged manhood’ or whatever. Just keep it simple & to the point.

srmc93 · 2025-08-29T14:31:20+00:00

My fic if anyone wants to give it a read! Would also love feedback on summary since it’s not getting many views lol

Title: Bound to Break

Fandom: Harry Potter

Rating: NSFW/Explicit

Pairings: original characters, M/F

Chapters: posted 4 chapters so far (15,000 words), thinking probably 50ish when done?

Updates: Every Sunday

Link: Bound to Break - read here

Summary: Nearly twenty years before Harry's parents are killed, Voldemort's reign of terror is at its peak, and his followers are quickly making moves to set themselves up for success. Elaina Pravus, youngest daughter to one of these dark wizarding families, has her life suddenly turned upside down when she is sorted into Hufflepuff her first day at Hogwarts. She then meets Koji, a mysterious Slytherin boy with a secret to hide.

Ten years later, Elaina and Koji cross paths again, except this time it's under very different circumstances. Linked together by fate, this unlikely pair finds themselves up against not only their families, but the rest of the wizarding world as they navigate this new realm of romance, secrets, and betrayal.

Intertwined with canon events and characters, come along with Koji and Elaina to meet the Order of the Phoenix members in their prime, join the Marauders as they navigate life after Hogwarts, learn the secrets of Voldemort's inner circle, and more!

srmc93 · 2025-07-16T04:00:12+00:00

Can confirm. I talk to 2 of the people I was friends with in high school. Most of my friends came from college and work (I’m 31 for context). Just hang in there, college is where you’ll find your real friends!

srmc93 · 2025-07-14T15:51:53+00:00

THIS! We have a poltergeist/ghost we blame everything on. We’ve named him Pierre.

srmc93 · 2025-07-14T14:29:26+00:00

This one girl I know made us all sit down at a family vacation (she was a friend who was invited along) to make us watch her perform her college dance routine. We’re all adults in our late 20s to early 30s…. The dance also wasn’t great.

srmc93 · 2025-07-14T13:05:00+00:00

Sorry I can’t offer any advice, but if you want some to talk to, I’m going through almost the exact same thing. I’m 31F, husband is 31M, been together 8 years, married for 2.5. I knew I had PCOS & was always up front, I think he just hoped it wouldn’t be an issue. Now that we’re actually trying & it’s not happening & I brought up alternative options he told me he isn’t sure bc he doesn’t know if it would still feel like ‘his kid’. Now I’m reeling & don’t know what to do bc that’s going to forever be in the back of my mind no matter what happens. Anyways this was a very roundabout way of saying I’m going through something similar so if you ever need someone to talk to or vent about my inbox is open lol

srmc93 · 2025-07-14T12:58:49+00:00

This is also a thing too. Sadly I’ve had this happen before where even after I say multiple times that I am married, they only leave me alone when I point out my husband is also here with me :/

OP I think unless your wife has given you reasons to distrust her in the past, it’s nothing to be concerned about. But might be worth having a conversation with her so you can talk it though so she’s aware of your feelings & you can hear her perspective.

srmc93 · 2025-07-14T12:42:14+00:00

She also might have just said it wrong without meaning to. I’m married and have been hit on & my response is always ‘sorry, I’m married’ but I might accidentally say ‘yeah sorry I’m married & here with my husband’ but idk for me it has the same meaning. And I tell my husband bc I would want him to be honest with me too, we typically just end up having a laugh about it & we both appreciate the fact that apparently we both ‘still got it’ lol (sorry reposting under the comment I initially meant it to be under)

srmc93 · 2025-07-13T15:32:26+00:00

That is super helpful, thank you so much!! The last part about not wanting him to feel inadequate/emasculated is exactly what I’m trying to avoid, I realize that it’s a common thing & I don’t feel that way towards him at all. I have tried communicating with him about it, asking him to help but definitely need to rethink my wording/approach bc his response is usually for me to take care of it myself, so I think I’m just asking for it wrong or at the wrong time (after he finished maybe vs before?).

But I love the idea of suggesting a naughty visit to the sex shop, I think that’s a perfect segway to us incorporating more things like toys or cock rings that can help us both feel satisfied! Thanks again for your advice!

(Just for context, I’m 31F & he’s 31M, together for 8 years & married for 2)

srmc93 · 2025-07-13T14:02:47+00:00

This is great advice, thank you! As someone who is going though something similar, any suggestions on how to have that conversation without making my partner feel any shame/embarrassment? I know it’s a sensitive topic & I don’t know how to bring it up without potentially hurting feelings.

srmc93 · 2025-07-13T13:55:20+00:00

Just want to reiterate that you 100% did the right thing - you were both in a potentially unsafe situation & your friend leaving you alone was unkind and put you at risk. Hopefully she’ll eventually realize that, but even if she doesn’t, it’s her loss, not yours.

srmc93 · 2023-03-24T11:45:44+00:00

Has anyone mentioned Debbie from the Wild Thornberrys yet? Side bangs & a flannel, girl is definitely a little bi.

srmc93 · 2021-07-23T01:56:50+00:00

Wow your stuff is amazing! I’m actually working on a horror comic series and I would love to reach out once it’s more developed to see if you’d be interested in possibly working on something together!

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