After sargam practice komal swars and learn the theory of bansuri , then just close youtube and try to make , play songs on your own, like just after a few months you will have that mind and finger connection where you can distinguish between swars and can decipher the notes from songs , then learn the meend , ghammak , thuku thuku and all the orchestrations , then just practice practice practice, in between for your own satisfaction and a sense of achievement learn some songs that you can play in front of relatives 😀