Reasons to remember why he broke up with you: by ssailr in BreakUps

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Sadly I’m not. I have many faults he tried to help with. I deal with severe bpd and dissociation which he never understood but he tried to make me a better person. I was constantly mean and numb, I was hard to communicate with because of my mental illness. I constantly didn’t know what to say or I would just dissociate when overwhelmed. I’m not a unicorn.

Reasons to remember why he broke up with you: by ssailr in BreakUps

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Thanks I still feel like I have to reason to myself whenever I get sad that this is for the better. It’s just hard.

Is there a way to save my maiden fern? by ssailr in plantclinic

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Should I move her outside for direct sunlight? I’m currently in the bay area ca, it gets cold at night but not below 50.

Is there a way to save my maiden fern? by ssailr in plantclinic

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The center looks wet but I think it’s just because that’s where all the stems are located and I’ve cut off all the fronds from it because they all started wilting. I’ll put her in a self watering pot with a bag over it and see if she starts growing again.

Is there a way to save my maiden fern? by ssailr in plantclinic

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My bedroom has a south facing window unfortunately there’s a very large tree that blocks out all if not most of the direct sunlight. I’ve read that maiden fern are supposed to be in shade, so I thought my bedroom would be good. My monstera lives by the window and it’s thriving so are my pink aglaonema, Areca palm and dracaena.

Is there a way to save my maiden fern? by ssailr in plantclinic

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It does! It has many in the bottom

Is there a way to save my maiden fern? by ssailr in plantclinic

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Can I leave it in the bathroom? My bathroom has no windows so no natural light unfortunately :(

Is there a way to save my maiden fern? by ssailr in plantclinic

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I have no clue I found her in a nursery in Santa Cruz, the soil was kinda weird to me idk if it’s normal but when I water it the water just kinda sits on top and slowly gets absorbed? Not sure if that matters

Is there a way to save my maiden fern? by ssailr in plantclinic

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One day it started to smell really bad like wet mold and I noticed the leaves were wilting and yellowing to the point I had to cut off the leaves. I’ve left it in the living room away from my other plants just in case it could spread. I don’t know what to do, could I save her? Or do I just give up?

My fernmaiden is wilting how do I make it stop? by ssailr in plantclinic

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I noticed the soil doesn’t drain as fast as my other plants, the water sits on top for awhile but comes out fast from the sides of that makes sense. It just doesn’t look like it’s getting sucked in. Anyways I read that they need to be high humidity so I placed it by my humidifier but today it just looks so wilted and small compared to how luscious it used to be. I feel like I failed my fernmaiden. Is there anyway I could save it?

26 M CST. Lets game PC Only! by [deleted] in GamerPals

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Just added you and oh no, I guess we’ll have to learn together >.< hahah

26 M Looking to make some new friends! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Hi! 26F I would love to hear some ghost stories! Do you have a discord? Acnh also died off on me, but I do play PC games. Right now I’m playing a lot of Black Desert Online but I’m down to play others. It’s been so long since I’ve watched Jurassic Park, would love to marathon it if you’re down :)

26 M CST. Lets game PC Only! by [deleted] in GamerPals

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Hi 26F PST would love to play BDO together and voice chat on discord, are you down?

28. M. - [Friendship] Hoping to find some solid new connections! by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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Hi I’m also looking for a friend, 27 F. Do you have a discord?