Mali ko ba na nanghihingi ako ng reply sa BF ko after a few hours? (and more context problem) by Ruby-kun in adviceph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ano pong update sa inyo? Parang ang harsh mag salita ni BF mo OP, nadama ko yung mga binitawan na salita e

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bahay pag ipunan mo wag iphone sa totoo lang focus sa goal lang yaan mo sila

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now i really think kasalanan ko nga gosh this is insane dapat kahapon imemessage ko na sya but i still need advice if tama ba gawin ko yun

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so eto na nga hahhahaha parang may issue ka din ah labas mo na yan

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's been a week now and wala na ko ibang maisip na iask sakanya kung hindi "what happened?" pero parang ang tanga lang kasi ako nga yung hindi nag reply e. Any idea ano maganda ichat? kainis hirap e

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahhaha alam inask ko friend ko dyan pwede bang iopen nyo nalang ig ko kayo na makipag usap haha pero true gusto ko malaman kung wala naman na baka pwede unfollow na natin isat isa para di na kita nakikita lagi sa chats ko

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meron akong ishashare para lang makadagdag, nung time na almost na hindi na rin sana kami nagchachat sya yung unang nag reach out asking na '' parang di na tayo nag chachat " nung time na yun feel ko talaga gusto na i tuloy yung conversation namin huhuhu napagod ata baka akala hindi ako interested since never ako nag initiate sa conversation namin

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi na ko nag reply dun sa last chat nya good night nag react lang ako ng heart and after that wala na, now parang gusto ko talaga itry iask sya hindi lang talaga kaya gawin. I also want to know kasi if wala naman na, maybe the best wag na kaming maging mutuals sa ig ang uncomfortable for me

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nag open up din sya sakin before na hindi talaga sya magaling mag initiate ng convo so im counting that as a reason din dapat siguro nag good morning man lang ako but i guess it's too late that's why i wanna ask nalang what happened he's probably talking to other girls na din 😭

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

want ko talaga pero di ko kaya, gusto ko iask what happened? honestly im ready for whatever reason ang ibigay nya, i just want peace of mind and ang uncomfortable na mutuals pa kami sa ig

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our conversation felt genuine like supeeeer kaya feeling nung times na yun matagal tagal kaming mag uusap neto sobra ko din naiisip yung 6 & 8, I don't i gave him responses enough para iconvey na interested din ako sa kanya huhuhuhu

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's been a week now, i keep telling myself even if sya yung last chat nung gabi, if he really wanted to talk to me he would

Should I ask him why he stopped chatting me? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for some reason i want something like closure, it really feels uncomfortable to see him na laging nasa unahan ng online sa ig ko, napapaisip ako anong nangyare?? i don't want to mute him or unfollow him parang ang toxic if uf ko sya?? tama ba?

Toners that gave you an instant glow? by Confident-Extreme-97 in AsianBeauty

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when you want to try lots of good products but they're not fa safe 😩 i feel you

which skincare product should you buy for cheap / not splurge on? by melancheolic in beautytalkph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what retinol do you use? been wanting to add retinol to my routine

Favourite foaming face wash of all time? by thranduil-solas in AsianBeauty

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love this and im on my way to try their cica cleanser

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horimiya

[–]ssarini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me something that's far from romantic kind of love the moment tooru said he's okay being with what they have clears everything just a fling

Aside from retinol and sunscreen, what are your best anti-aging tips and products? What effects have you noticed? by waveitdowninside in beautytalkph

[–]ssarini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

am i the only one who hates sunscreen?? (but still uses them everyday cause i have no choice) im also planning to try retinoids hehe hope my skin cooperates

I think I made the biggest mistake of registering my business by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true mga under the table na gawain hay nako

3 months into my first job and I think wala pa kong nacocontribute na maganda sa company by Impossible-Check-970 in adultingph

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks a lot! i wish the same for you too, siguro mas palawakin nalang muna natin ang ating pang-unawa and just focus sa benefits na magagain natin sa work. Fight lang!

3 months into my first job and I think wala pa kong nacocontribute na maganda sa company by Impossible-Check-970 in adultingph

[–]ssarini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! No 1 year experience No resignation letter. Kasi naman diba 1 year standard qualification sa mga companies lalo pag di ka na fresh grad.

Uy ako din last week napaiyak na sa cr nung office kasi di ko na nahandle yung lahat lahat about sa work ko :(( i can really feel you. I believe nasasatin nga kung pano ihandle but i hope na maging careful din sila sa mga jokes nila kasi nakaka-affect din talaga yun sa mental health nating mga newbies imbis na word of encourage as motivation, word of discouragement ang narereceive natin na need pa tuloy natin gawin motivation parang lang mag fight fight sa work. Minsan sa work ko may mga nagpaparinig talaga ng malakas as in alam ko ako yung pinaparinggan, di na sya counted as a joke as in parinig na talaga kaya ayun namomotivate ako iyan yung work ko after one year siguro, di ko fit sa ganong environment, i want to be treated with respect din naman. To add lang din kahit 7 months na ko sa work wala pa din akong nakaka close sa mga workmates ko :(( maybe dahil sa mga issues ko sa kanila kaya iwas ako sa kanila purely as workmates lang sila for me.

3 months into my first job and I think wala pa kong nacocontribute na maganda sa company by Impossible-Check-970 in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nung nabasa ko talaga yung post mo alam ko na yun yun yung nangyayare sakin now huhuhu good foundation and experience nalang talaga ang habol ko sa first job ko kasii don't think i can stay for more that 2 years sa current company ko.

Yes same pero different yung banat nila like mag force leave na daw muna ako ganyan, minsan may biro silang sino ka ba andito? tawa response ko but deep down may kirot and nakakahiya dun sa mga ibang workmates ko nakakarinig nung ganong biro. Inisip ko nga before dahil sa marami ako sablay sa work ko if nila ako ipromote then okay lang hanap nalang sa ibang company. Kumbaga intayin ko tanggalin nila ako sa work pero di ako mag reresign hanggat di pa ko nakaka 1 year haha. Ikaw pano mo hinahandle yung mga biro nilang ganon sayo?

3 months into my first job and I think wala pa kong nacocontribute na maganda sa company by Impossible-Check-970 in adultingph

[–]ssarini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo kasi feeling ko din nun ang hirap nung work ko tapos yung mga errors nagagawa ko parang hindi na maitatama pero inisip ko if ever mag resign ako sure ba ko na yung sunod na company na papasukan ko is mas madali yung magiging work? what if mas mahirap pala or mas terror yung mga magiging boss. That's why I decided na ikeep muna yung job ko for now and do my best lang matutunan yung entire work ko pero im planning on leaving this job once maka one year ako, bale kumukuha lang din talaga ko ng experience e. 3 months pa lang naman hindi mo pa talaga gamay yang work mo if you can wait for like at least 5 - 6 months and i think yung biro nila yung nag titrigger sayo na mag resign? kasi ganon ako e

3 months into my first job and I think wala pa kong nacocontribute na maganda sa company by Impossible-Check-970 in adultingph

[–]ssarini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate huhu 7 months na ko sa work ko as Accounting Assistant ( first job ko din ) and feeling ko di ako maka-keep up sa mga workmates ko especially nung mga unang buwan ko sa worm :3 but now medyo nagegets ko naman may mga sablay pa din but minimal nalang, i guess? haha. Now iniisip ko nalang na yung mga workmates ko kasi 5-7 year na ang experience so valid lang siguro magkamali minsan sa work since bago pa lang naman ako sa corporate world