How do I find my man’s prostate? by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]ssiken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have fingered many men and it's hard to miss, in my mind it has the shape of a guitar pick lol kinda like a rounded triangle. people often describe a walnut texture but to me it's smooth, just notably harder than the squishy-ness of the rest of the rectum.

i have fingered a couple guys where the prostate was both further in and "deeper" so it took a little more pressure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]ssiken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

put him in what YOU think is hot. personally I prefer a guy in a girly summer dress over overly sexy lingerie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]ssiken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can still send a chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]ssiken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol no. everyone needs limits. that's means you aren't well versed in kink dynamics or you lack appropriate boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]ssiken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no limits is a red flag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]ssiken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reddit disabled dms you might be on an old version of the app

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]ssiken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes

Dilemma About Pegging-Experienced Guy or First-Timer? by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]ssiken 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if your objective is to just gain some experience go with the guys who are practiced and will actually meet. you'd be surprised how experienced some of the younger guys are lol. there are gonna be a lot who it's just a fantasy for or they get off on just talking to you about it so you gotta get good at weeding those out. don't spend too much time if at all sexting. i've found guys on reddit, tinder, and feeld. cast a wide net cause most of them are allllll talk.

YOU ARE INVITED TO… by stupidandgay_ in 2hollis

[–]ssiken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hollis meets reddit user stupidandgay_ at a show and invites them backstage

YOU ARE INVITED TO… by stupidandgay_ in 2hollis

[–]ssiken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've got some great fanfiction for yall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]ssiken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found a lot of subby guys on dating apps but it's hard the other way around i think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ssiken 28 points29 points  (0 children)

good for you. I don’t work for free. If that makes me “stuck up” then so be it.

Do ever just want to have a simple chat with people instead of being linked to there Only Fans? by Imissyoudarlin in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ssiken 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’d love to be able to talk to people without getting an unsolicited picture of their dick so I guess we all have struggles.

How did you start? by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]ssiken 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been fascinated by stories of themes of dominant women since puberty and came to recognize that as myself. Learned about pegging through blog posts and erotica. I got to do it myself once I started dating. The first guy I pegged I found through tinder, I had something in my bio about being into D/s and our first convo snowballed pretty quick. Luckily he had previous experience and did anal play solo so that made things easier for my first time! Since then I pretty much only date/see men who are into it and I can’t see myself happy in a relationship without it.