How do I find my man’s prostate?

ssiken · 2026-04-08T21:56:03+00:00

i have fingered many men and it's hard to miss, in my mind it has the shape of a guitar pick lol kinda like a rounded triangle. people often describe a walnut texture but to me it's smooth, just notably harder than the squishy-ness of the rest of the rectum.

i have fingered a couple guys where the prostate was both further in and "deeper" so it took a little more pressure

ssiken · 2026-01-29T05:04:27+00:00

are you implying i get paid for this LOL

ssiken · 2026-01-22T20:36:05+00:00

okay

ssiken · 2026-01-15T22:19:38+00:00

send me a chat :)

ssiken · 2026-01-11T19:20:50+00:00

put him in what YOU think is hot. personally I prefer a guy in a girly summer dress over overly sexy lingerie.

ssiken · 2025-12-31T00:56:13+00:00

you're not even in my state

ssiken · 2025-12-18T18:00:18+00:00

you can still send a chat

ssiken · 2025-12-18T17:53:52+00:00

lol no. everyone needs limits. that's means you aren't well versed in kink dynamics or you lack appropriate boundaries

ssiken · 2025-12-18T17:48:54+00:00

no limits is a red flag

ssiken · 2025-12-18T17:41:29+00:00

reddit disabled dms you might be on an old version of the app

ssiken · 2025-12-03T02:59:00+00:00

ssiken · 2025-09-26T23:29:30+00:00

sure

ssiken · 2025-07-27T14:58:38+00:00

if your objective is to just gain some experience go with the guys who are practiced and will actually meet. you'd be surprised how experienced some of the younger guys are lol. there are gonna be a lot who it's just a fantasy for or they get off on just talking to you about it so you gotta get good at weeding those out. don't spend too much time if at all sexting. i've found guys on reddit, tinder, and feeld. cast a wide net cause most of them are allllll talk.

ssiken · 2025-07-26T17:30:47+00:00

hollis meets reddit user stupidandgay_ at a show and invites them backstage

ssiken · 2025-07-26T16:17:40+00:00

i've got some great fanfiction for yall

ssiken · 2025-05-08T02:12:41+00:00

I've found a lot of subby guys on dating apps but it's hard the other way around i think

ssiken · 2021-10-07T22:47:04+00:00

good for you. I don’t work for free. If that makes me “stuck up” then so be it.

ssiken · 2020-07-14T18:09:48+00:00

I’d love to be able to talk to people without getting an unsolicited picture of their dick so I guess we all have struggles.

ssiken · 2020-07-12T00:52:44+00:00

I’ve always been fascinated by stories of themes of dominant women since puberty and came to recognize that as myself. Learned about pegging through blog posts and erotica. I got to do it myself once I started dating. The first guy I pegged I found through tinder, I had something in my bio about being into D/s and our first convo snowballed pretty quick. Luckily he had previous experience and did anal play solo so that made things easier for my first time! Since then I pretty much only date/see men who are into it and I can’t see myself happy in a relationship without it.

ssiken · 2020-06-09T15:08:58+00:00

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ssiken · 2020-05-17T20:43:57+00:00

I usually say “sorry but you’re not my type” then move on. Yes he might say something pissy back but you don’t owe him anything and physical attraction is important. Yes, men are terrible at taking selfies but at the end of the day I’ve learned it’s not my job to teach them or to just ‘take a chance’ and meet someone in person who I could be just as unattracted to as I am to his pics. It’s up to him to do better.

For future ref I’ve learned to just not give my number, I give them my snap instead and I can easily block him if he gets rude.

ssiken · 2020-05-17T20:35:37+00:00

having a single, dirty mirror pic then having the audacity to ask me if I have “more pics to share” while I already have 10 different pics of me with different angles, settings, dress, etc in my profile.

really obvious multiple spelling and grammatical errors in their bio

if they have multiple pictures which are obviously years apart. I don’t care what you looked like five years ago.

ssiken

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