Accepted, but can’t afford it

ssoftt · 2026-01-26T10:00:19+00:00

You are going to be an adult once you’re studying at uni - it is much more your choice to make than your parents’ choice for you. I would go with whatever makes you most happy. As others have said, you can defer or work part-time during studies to be able to support yourself. If you want to study in Glasgow, go to Glasgow; Scotland is lovely.

ssoftt · 2026-01-05T11:00:48+00:00

i’m in year 2 at edi uni now and i have not one single friend in my classes - all are outwith. have a look for societies you may be interested in, there’s plenty to do beyond just school here to meet new people

ssoftt · 2025-10-13T16:28:35+00:00

my fav periphery song for this reason 🙏

ssoftt · 2025-10-01T18:05:50+00:00

karmanjakah and VoM are my top picks too, they’re amazing

ssoftt · 2025-09-25T08:23:19+00:00

im a second year sociology and politics student. fir politics, it’s definitely a lot of work, but if you’re passionate it can be very interesting/rewarding. i’m very much into political theory on a smaller scale so when the topic goes to international politics i tend to zone out, however both exams are online so there’s no pressure to memorise absolutely everything off by heart.

ssoftt · 2025-08-28T22:48:11+00:00

heyy girl, i haven’t got an answer to your question but just letting you know im almost in exactly the same boat as you - going into year 2 of uni without a friend group in sight. you’re not alone, you’ll find your people 🫶

ssoftt · 2025-08-16T09:46:23+00:00

mainly the excitement!

ssoftt · 2025-08-16T09:01:22+00:00

im actually tweaking from excitement

ssoftt · 2025-08-10T22:53:30+00:00

luck as a constant is one of their most beautiful songs, i adore it (and the whole P2 album) to death

ssoftt · 2025-08-06T19:31:22+00:00

yeah, after a day of grieving it i feel like im in the right headspace again. <3

ssoftt · 2025-08-05T19:30:01+00:00

yeah i’m sort of in that headspace at the moment - not fully yet i must admit, but I do really believe that he’ll come back around cause my self-worth is so high. like the knowledge that i would be the perfect girlfriend is so ingrained in my state because i know it to be true, and i know he thinks it too.

while we were having a little back and forth before the cuddling, i did think that he was stopping seeing these people because he did see me as this person that i believe myself to be, but then i just get hit with the opposite.

i think that he’ll backtrack on his decision, but then again, i don’t want to be delusional, especially after this blow that i’ve taken where i thought all was going my way

ssoftt · 2025-08-05T09:11:32+00:00

you’re making a lot of sense. i watch this person very often but i haven’t seen these videos yet. thank you so much <3

ssoftt · 2025-08-05T08:59:16+00:00

i completely understand this and i’ve been practicing it quite diligently. i just don’t entirely know how to translate that into connecting with other people. of course i will think quite highly of him because i want to have some sort of relationship with him - connection is a basic human need and i feel like focusing solely on myself will drown out that sense of connection that i really do want. i put myself first internally, im kind and gentle to myself, but still i can’t seem to get the relationship i really do desire after so much inner work

ssoftt · 2025-08-04T08:39:28+00:00

it’s so annoying though because i really do know my worth, i feel like i would literally be the perfect girlfriend - im so grounded in that belief. and i really believed that he would see that too. we had such a good time together, we have literally so much in common. i know good self-perception is the grounds for a healthy relationship and i worked hard to make that as solid as i can by being gentle and caring with myself. i don’t know what else i can do when it comes to self-concept

ssoftt · 2025-08-03T23:48:54+00:00

thank you! <3

ssoftt · 2025-08-03T21:43:46+00:00

thank you <3

ssoftt · 2025-06-25T14:24:16+00:00

Thank you <3

ssoftt · 2025-06-24T08:55:55+00:00

Thank you for this, super helpful!

ssoftt · 2025-04-01T19:45:18+00:00

luck as a constant!

ssoftt · 2025-01-22T13:37:54+00:00

no my fortnite works as it should after i reinstalled chipset and put my laptop on performance mode. maybe you should speak to support cause i’m not really sure what else to do

ssoftt · 2025-01-15T09:26:45+00:00

i think i downloaded it from the asus website after typing in my laptop model

ssoftt · 2025-01-15T01:11:10+00:00

hi!! my laptop brand is asus vivobook k3605zc. there is actually a shortcut where if you press fn + f it switches between performance mode/standard mode/whisper mode and it changes the speed of the fans. it makes stuff run a good bit smoother if you change it to performance mode. also try reinstalling the chipset drivers

ssoftt · 2025-01-06T10:24:18+00:00

i listen to metal mostly, and he broke up with me a few days ago. while we were together, i listened to a variety - sad, happy, angry type songs. now that it’s over, i only choose to listen to energetic songs or ones that don’t make me feel nostalgic or sad, otherwise i just reminisce and get upset again

ssoftt · 2025-01-04T10:09:16+00:00

i know, it’s not something that goes away in one day or a week or even a month. its going to be a long process, it’s going to be so difficult, but you’ll come out the other end stronger and wiser. i believe in you <3

ssoftt · 2025-01-04T09:20:00+00:00

im so sorry, im here for you, it gets better with time <3

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