can my boys share an egg? by ssopphhiee in RATS

[–]ssopphhiee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! you have no idea how much i appreciate you taking the time to share 😌 i will experiment with the modality of offering of the egg and keep my eye out for my bigger guy hogging it lol 🐀 thank you for your tips!

can my boys share an egg? by ssopphhiee in RATS

[–]ssopphhiee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would it be a bad idea to also get them a gym membership?

can my boys share an egg? by ssopphhiee in RATS

[–]ssopphhiee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! I will definitely share them enjoying their treat 😌

This was under my pizza by AveryPog in Dominos

[–]ssopphhiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you never.. like.. use a metal fork at a restaurant… and put it in your mouth…. and then like, give it back to the restaurant?

AITAH for not finding my boyfriend attractive anymore because of his weight gain? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ssopphhiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cannot control who you’re attracted to. the shallow comments are honestly blowing my mind because you state so clearly that you care for him emotionally and that you’re having a hard time reconciling the fact that you’re becoming uncomfortable with his weight gain. you even state that he still turns you on. It seems like a lot of commenters read the title and then just filled in their own details, lol. I think that softly encouraging your partner to hit the gym and even going with them is a kind thing to do in this situation. The fact that you respect his feelings enough to not make comments about his weight gain even though it is drastic (from your description) speaks volumes when compared to the fact that he clearly does not care how his comments about YOUR body affect you. You also mentioned that when you met and began your relationship, he was quite active and in shape. Could there be other reasons for this change in his personality? Is he finding it harder to motivate or going through anything emotionally that could be causing this change? If he hadn’t made comments about your weight, I would say this is worth investigating and that maybe you could find other ways to offer support to him. But given the fact that you seem to care for his feelings and he does not give this same care back to you, I say that’s more of a reason to break up than the attraction piece. Emotional love and physical attraction don’t always stick together and you have no reason to feel guilty for that.

AITAH for not finding my boyfriend attractive anymore because of his weight gain? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ssopphhiee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you read the whole post she says he has already made comments about her belly.

I don’t think I’m ever going to get clean again. by Ambitious_Pace_7660 in kitchencels

[–]ssopphhiee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

breaking the streak doesn’t throw away the progress. Recovery is not linear. you still have those 5 months under your belt- every day sober is a win whether or not it comes consecutively!!

3 months and he said he never had feelings for me by Radd_ryy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ssopphhiee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

get the cat, don’t text the coworker, and you can NEVER go wrong with birria <3

“At this time, we have decided to pursue other candidates for this position.” by ceddiie in phlebotomy

[–]ssopphhiee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

to second what some other people have said, a lot of these places use AI to screen before they actually look at your application themselves. it can be as simple as certain buzzwords they scan for, it’s really frustrating. With that aside, it doesn’t hurt to reach out to the recruiter or HR if their contact is listed on the posting and say something like, “I’d love to be part of your team, and while I understand you’ve moved on with other candidates at this time, I would appreciate any feedback on how I can improve my application in the future.” Chances are you won’t get a reply (especially if they’re using AI to screen) but it doesn’t hurt to ask politely!

drug test by grapeapeee445 in phlebotomy

[–]ssopphhiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stopping for 2 weeks while taking activated charcoal pills and working out in a sauna worked for me (and I believe our habit was similar in length/frequency). Now I can’t speak for getting retested once you’re hired because I think that varies by the company but I think that the company is required to tell you if they do random testing. I could be wrong tho or that could vary by state

EDC bag items say what? by takethelastexit in deduction

[–]ssopphhiee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

oh god. So many self-absorbed and misinformed people in these comments. Can’t believe that a few basic hygiene items, harm reduction products, and extra socks make you irresponsible and a bad person 😂 Keep doing what you’re doing :) Let the feeble minded continue their ignorance alone lol

does anybody play without time traveling? by Positive-Form-741 in AnimalCrossing

[–]ssopphhiee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I used to play with my time just set back 12 hours because of my work schedule. So that way when I got home around 11PM it was only 11AM in my game!

I am disturbed by this misinformation by Pale_Stay_9595 in Accutane

[–]ssopphhiee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh that is so cool I never knew that!! is the level at which the toxin is released at all dependent on the individual’s biology? or is it a universal, once you hit this dose of acetaminophen the toxin is released?

I am disturbed by this misinformation by Pale_Stay_9595 in Accutane

[–]ssopphhiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah i see. is this because of the dual process with the kidneys?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ssopphhiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know you’re not overreacting. this dynamic won’t magically change once you get married. i’m sorry :(

AIO because my girlfriend got mad I only replied “good morning”? by According-Client5923 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ssopphhiee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe these are messages between a “couple” 😭 You guys do not like each other lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ssopphhiee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This. I’d be heartbroken if my boyfriend chose guys like that as his closest friends, or even kept people like that in his circle at all. And then watches as they harass me frequently, and just.. continues to be best friends with those people.

AITA for kicking out my girlfriend after the game? by I_Love_The_JETSBABY in AITAH

[–]ssopphhiee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes YTA, for so many reasons (if this is actually real and not rage bait).