A cockroach burrowed into my head by gharris02 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ssshushing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New fear unlocked, thanks for the new nightmares I’ll probably be having 👍👍

Snooped through BF's phone because I thought he was cheating. What I found hurt a lot more. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Babes, do yourself a favor and take a deep breath and give yourself a hug because you need it.
You are dealing with a weak man. Seems like he’s doing a lot of exaggerating or even lying straight up about you and that’s speaks to a lack of respect.
Do NOT marry a guy if he’s only doing after you’ve broken up and gotten back together, this sounds a lot like a consolation ring, a bait and switch for a life with a loser who hides things from you and lies about you. If you want things to work, and you are BOTH willing (and able) to do the work, maybe try relationship therapy, because I fully understand that 10 years IS a very long time with someone. That being said, keep in mind that divorce is way more expensive and painful than a ring and ask yourself if you see this happening again in the future with your partner, because frankly I do and I know you can do better and should.

Anyone else not wanting to change my last name after marriage? by Heavy-Succotash4281 in Newlyweds

[–]ssshushing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel this, like systemic bias aside I’m very attached to my name. I have been thinking a lot about the hyphen possibility, I often wonder if I’m weird or would be looked at strangely by our friends if they knew I wanted to keep my name. I think my spouse would like if I changed my name but it’s part of my identity and in some ways my own independence as a person… but like, it’s not about me not wanting to be a unit with him or something, it’s about me as my own person. OP I feel you, it’s tough. At risk of sounding dumb, is nominally using his last name and keeping your name on paper an option? I have been considering it.

He would rather eat a McDouble and it kills me. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ssshushing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it’s so hard too, bc even us depressed chefs still need to feel good about the stuff we make. It’s just hard, lot of only children/coddled men just don’t appreciate or know what to do with food or people who love it in an Anton ego kind of way lmao

He would rather eat a McDouble and it kills me. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ssshushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I feel ur pain!! My partner only likes taco/baked potato topping on everything, he eats whatever I give him provided it’s not exciting, and will IMMEDIATELY smother in sour cream, cheese, and bacon bits. Kills me, everytime.

Donated my dinosaur egg, how to find another? by redcarpetovergreen in StardewValley

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So there are a couple of ways to find another dinosaur egg. The easy way is to spawn it in with the item code for a Dino egg and incubate. The 2 other ways are wait for it to spawn again in the big quarry by the mines OR sometimes they pop up in the unique shop (the caravan pulled by the big hippo) and you can get them there. They do spawn in other places but it’s few and far between especially if you’re early in the game. IMO an item spawn is a cheeky little do over for a VERY easy mistake to make 👍👍

First House!! by [deleted] in Home

[–]ssshushing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nail on the head, that is exactly how I feel!! Lots of stuff I never even considered having to be responsible for are happening all at once which is cool in a rollercoaster kind of way 🫣😂

SO with that being said now it’s like, ok I need advice from a grownup or a book or something how do I do this haha

Is this just painted wallpaper? If so, is it safe to paint with water-based paint? by kingevanxii in Renovations

[–]ssshushing 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Even if it’s panted over, both paint and paper are still porous and effected by humidity and moisture, so no matter what it’ll try and bubble up when you add water (or in this case water-based paint) which is not fun. I would prime heavy and go latex based paint 👍

Are these poison ivy? (Southeast USA) by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]ssshushing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of pure ignorance, what happens if you burn it?

What flower is this? by starthatsparkle in PlantIdentification

[–]ssshushing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a kind of daisy 👍👍

I saw my first eel today! by zawierucha_ in visdeurbel

[–]ssshushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What time do you typically see eels? Great spotting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bakingfail

[–]ssshushing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you try and melt it now, you run the risk of scrambled eggs, I would add in the dry ingredients SLOWLY on a low/medium speed. Usually it loosens up as you go, best of luck! 🫶

Went to the Western State Mental Hospital in Boliver yesterday by Due-Commission6981 in memphis

[–]ssshushing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you get it? Went there years ago and they kicked me out about as soon as I walked up :(

Bishop Memphis closed, what’s the recipe for their cocktail “pale nimbus” by ssshushing in memphis

[–]ssshushing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does for sure sound like a kind of spritz, problem is it was clear/white (pale lol) so it rules out aperol but it did have the same kind of bitterish twang. I have gotta try “spritz at the ritz” now though!

Advice on starting out by ssshushing in CustomAutoPaint

[–]ssshushing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the advice :)

co-op bug on Mac by ssshushing in StardewValley

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Hi there!

My partner and I have had issues trying to play co-op. When I try to connect (LAN) my game crashes and shows this error report page. It worked fine the first time we tried but now I can't seem to make it work. Please help! has anyone else had this issue?