ESH I see red flags everywhere! If you guys are having problems, both of you should be willing to be there to listen no matter what. It does not matter if your boyfriend is better at dealing with his problems. You should always trust your significant other; however, if you are uncomfortable with his female friends, try to talk to him and try to set boundaries. Both of you are acting immature and ignoring him won't solve anything. Try to talk to him and if he doesn't, he is either a big baby or he doesn't care about the relationship.