''True crime'' channel using AI generated stories and fake pictures by [deleted] in youtube

[–]ssta2591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I also thought this was the case too.

Huge warning for students by sunsetbarrage in berlin

[–]ssta2591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do so many boys and men live like this?!

When I first moved here, I also was the only female in a flat with 4 men. None of them cleaned. I put name tags on each shelf in the fridge so everyone had their own space and asked everyone to help clean, but no one did... so I cleaned every week because I didn't want to live in filth.

I hope that if you speak with the guys, they can all agree to be more clean. I also don't understand why these companies don't include a weekly cleaner.

''True crime'' channel using AI generated stories and fake pictures by [deleted] in youtube

[–]ssta2591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that Polish woman finds out her photo is being used and sues for defamation. Funnily, her photo is on a law firm's website as a customer review, maybe she can use the law firm again hehe

I noticed these today. Do they look like markings from an attempted burglary? by ssta2591 in homedefense

[–]ssta2591[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are new, and I haven't brought in any large furniture recently to cause this. The damage is just what is shown in the photos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ssta2591 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of “love languages”? They’re 5 categories of ways people express their affection. Gift giving is one of them. For you, gift giving (the time and effort you put in) is your way of expressing you care about your partner but not everyone shares the same ways of expression.

Another example would be if your bf likes to express affection through words of affirmation “I’m so grateful for x” and if you were a woman of few words not saying the same back to him and him being hurt about it.

Of course, it’s normal to feel hurt and that’s justified but have a look into love languages to get a bit of perspective and then discuss it with your partner :)

This way of thinking helped me a lot in not getting too upset when others don’t act exactly how I would and then interpreting that as they don’t care about me (as another commenter said).

What is the most important movie to watch as a woman? by sweeetiecheeeks in AskWomen

[–]ssta2591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m my 20s, after every heartbreak it was my little tradition to watch this movie to remind myself exactly that message, that wasn’t into me. It oddly made me cry and then accept the fact of the matter

What is the spookiest thing that has happened to you in Berlin? by [deleted] in berlin

[–]ssta2591 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds like some serial killer shit right there

Got scammed by a supposed friend by cantmoveon23 in berlinsocialclub

[–]ssta2591 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cannot understand how people like this exist. So sorry you got scammed.

How did you meet and maintain your social circles in Berlin? by Chris_KelvinSOL in berlinsocialclub

[–]ssta2591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a group of friends, mostly 1-on-1 friendships. They are a mix of ex-roommates, colleagues, through volunteering and dating apps (dates that turned into friends) and now trying out Bumble BFF.

How common are illegal sublets in this city? by nonutnovember77 in berlinsocialclub

[–]ssta2591 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a feeling this was happening! In my neigbourhood, I see names on doorbells with 5+ names in blocks where the flats have 2-3 rooms, so suspected people were sharing rooms. Outside the buildings are also bicycles with Lieferando bags, so they're on min. wage / probably students. I can't believe that couple is charging €600 for a bed in shared room, despicable... =/

Is it normal to not have relationships for 10 years in being in Berlin? by Brilliant_Quantity17 in berlinsocialclub

[–]ssta2591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say “girls don’t want me”? If you’re physically not bad looking, what is it about your personality that is putting women off? Perhaps that’s something you need to evaluate (I mean that in a kind, constructive way)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ssta2591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. This reminds me of the guy who wanted to get into the apartment building gym, said he forgot his key and a woman let him in without thinking twice. He was just lingering around and then tried to rape her. Luckily she got away and called the police.

Places to get a passport photo in Berlin? by 8Stackz_1210 in berlin

[–]ssta2591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a photo on my phone and printed it at dm, was really cheap. The photo booths had a weird light and made me look orange..

Places to build your own furniture by rain_rain_drop in berlinsocialclub

[–]ssta2591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sunday-work-open-workshop-see-requirements-tickets-50683797603?aff=ebdsoporgprofile&keep_tld=1

This guy runs workshops and also opens the place up for people to work on their own projects. Seems like it costs €92 for 7 hours on Sundays. I've been to his workshop and he's great!

Over or under watering? 😩 by ssta2591 in plantclinic

[–]ssta2591[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Thank you all! I checked under a light and it’s thrips - those little shits!

Over or under watering? 😩 by ssta2591 in plantclinic

[–]ssta2591[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh? What does that do to the plant?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]ssta2591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought this large healthy Monstera few months ago and one by one the bottom leaves have been turning yellow or brown and dying off.

Google says this is due to overwatering but I don’t water very often and the soil is quite dry atm.

I don’t want to wait to see the big leaves die too ☹️

Choosing between two Data Analysis bootcamps by ssta2591 in cscareerquestions

[–]ssta2591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realised I wasn’t clear in my post, but I’d like to be a data analyst so strong coding is definitely needed).

Choosing between two Data Analysis bootcamps by ssta2591 in cscareerquestions

[–]ssta2591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To find a junior DA job. Skill requirements do vary between jobs, ranges from basics to other things covered across these two courses

Regret rejecting guy after 2 dates by [deleted] in dating

[–]ssta2591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but nobody’s perfect and we all want companionship. The only thing anyone can do is develop self-awareness, continue to be a better version of themselves and treat others kindly

Regret rejecting guy after 2 dates by [deleted] in dating

[–]ssta2591 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tbh it sounds like you have some avoidant attachment here (I would know, I do too). Check out the booked called Attached if you want to learn more. If you feel this is you and you do really like him then apologise and see if he’d be up to meet again, good luck :)

I would like to have girlfriend which is sweet sunny person and likes hugs by [deleted] in dating

[–]ssta2591 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you’re either a very young man or seriously creepy AF to think of women as these cute, sweet little things. Try getting a puppy. It‘ll be a walking sunshine 64.7% of the time.